DAILY DEVOTIONAL FROM PASTOR WESLEY October 20, 2022 

Looking Beyond Disappointment

We've all felt disappointed by God at some point, but the key is to remember His ways are better than ours. 

Now a certain man was sick, Lazarus of Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. …So the sisters sent word to Him, saying, ``Lord, behold, he whom You love is sick." But when Jesus heard this, He said, ``This sickness is not to end in death, but for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified by it." Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So, when He heard that he was sick, He then stayed two days longer in the place where He was. Then after this He said to the disciples, ``Let us go to Judea again." …This He said, and after that He said to them, ``Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I go, so that I may awaken him out of sleep." The disciples then said to Him, ``Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will recover." Now Jesus had spoken of his death, but they thought that He was speaking of literal sleep. So Jesus then said to them plainly, ``Lazarus is dead, and I am glad for your sakes that I was not there, so that you may believe; but let us go to him." John 11:1-15 

Disappointment is an emotional response to dashed hopes, goals, and desires. Sometimes it’s the result of circumstances beyond our control, but when others are involved, it’s easy to blame them for the situation. We might even lose faith in the person we think let us down. 

Martha and Mary could relate. The gospel of John tells us that Jesus loved Martha, her sister Mary, and their brother Lazarus (John 11:5). Because of this, they expected He would come immediately after learning that Lazarus was sick. But Jesus didn’t come until after Lazarus had died. 

We’re often like Martha and Mary. We pray for God to intervene in a situation the way that we desire. But if He doesn’t, we’re confused and disappointed in Him. Now, maybe we don’t voice these feelings, but we’ve all felt let down. 

Today’s passage reminds us that the Lord has higher purposes than we can perceive. Don’t let your disappointment shape your view of God. Instead, rely on what you know to be true about Him—that His love for you never fails, and He orchestrates all the events in your life for His glory and your ultimate good. When you’re feeling disappointed, the best response is simply to trust Him.

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