December 202512/15/2025
A Christmas poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow reveals a profound message of hope and faith in the face of despair, as he grapples with the darkness of war, loss, and doubt. Through his words, Longfellow finds solace in the promise of God's sovereignty and goodness, offering a powerful reminder that true peace can only be found in trusting in a living, loving God.
12/14/2025
A busy professional's stress-induced back pain is unexpectedly alleviated after taking time away for a strenuous activity, revealing the importance of prioritizing mental health and making sacrifices for others. By stepping aside to allow his wife to take a break, he inadvertently accomplishes something necessary and restorative, highlighting the value of putting others' interests above one's own.
12/13/2025
As technology allows us to capture life's moments with ease, many of us struggle to see beyond the surface level of social media snapshots, missing out on the true stories behind them. By reflecting on our own photo collections and sharing them with loved ones, we can break free from comparison and cultivate a deeper appreciation for the complexities of life.
12/12/2025
As the Bible reminds us, our God is not aloof, but rather one who chooses to enter into our mess and relate to every rank bit of it. This Christmas, discover the "God in the Mess" who sympathizes with our weaknesses and invites you to lean in and experience His presence in your life.
12/11/2025
In today's world of curated content, we often find ourselves surrounded by only what confirms our biases, leading to division and misunderstandings in our personal relationships. By actively seeking out opposing views and engaging with others who may challenge our perspectives, we can avoid "itching ears" and cultivate a deeper understanding of those around us.
12/10/2025
Stereotypes can be both fascinating and problematic, as they often rely on assumptions about individuals based on limited information. By recognizing the dangers of stereotypes and actively working to break them down, we can foster more inclusive and unified conversations in our personal and professional lives.
12/09/2025
This article reveals the often-overlooked desires of husbands during the holiday season, offering practical advice on how wives can show their love and appreciation through involvement in his passions, respect and admiration, and undivided attention. By incorporating these simple yet meaningful gestures into their holiday celebrations, wives can strengthen their relationships and create lasting memories with their husbands.
12/08/2025
This article offers practical advice for husbands on how to show their love and appreciation for their wives during the holiday season, focusing on three key areas: self-discovery, physical attraction, and emotional connection. By implementing simple yet meaningful gestures, such as surprise dates or thoughtful gifts, husbands can strengthen their relationships and create lasting memories with their partners.
12/07/2025
When life gets busy, conversations can get stuck, leaving couples feeling disconnected and uncertain about how to rekindle meaningful interactions. By asking the right questions, such as those outlined in this article, couples can reignite their connection and strengthen their relationship amidst the chaos of daily life.
12/06/2025
A seemingly ordinary Christmas tree hunt turned into a marital meltdown for the authors, David and Meg Robbins, who reveal that even strong marriages can be tested by daily stress and tension. By reflecting on their own experience and drawing from biblical wisdom, they offer practical advice to help couples recognize when their spouse may feel like an enemy, and how to cultivate ruthless trust in God's goodness and plans.
12/05/2025
A seminary-trained pastor reveals that his wife's top prayer request was not for him to pray more often, but rather for him to pray with her regularly, a struggle he and his wife have faced in their 25-year marriage. After finding a consistent solution, the couple reports feeling nourished and cherished, highlighting the importance of prioritizing prayer time together as a key to a stronger relationship.
12/04/2025
A seemingly minor moment of disrespect in marriage can be a window into deeper miscommunication and misunderstandings, highlighting the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships. By taking a step back to consider our partner's perspective and context, we can transform what feels like a hurtful comment into an opportunity for growth and connection.
12/03/2025
A man's marriage is tested when he realizes that his efforts to be patient and kind are superficial, lacking the true nature of Christ. By embracing his own selfishness and seeking to replace it with Christ's Spirit, he may experience a sweeter marriage than one based on external appearances alone.
12/02/2025
A marriage built on honesty and vulnerability can be a powerful antidote to the dangers of flattery and manipulation. By embracing the truth in love, couples can cultivate a deeper understanding of themselves and each other, leading to a more authentic and fulfilling relationship.
12/01/2025
A Hallmark Christmas mentality can be misleading when it comes to marriage, as real-life relationships often involve conflict and imperfection. By embracing the messy reality of love and romance, couples can cultivate a deeper appreciation for their own unique story and find joy in the everyday moments that make life worth celebrating.
November 202511/30/2025
A couple's idyllic beach vacation turned into a nightmare when the husband was diagnosed with a debilitating disease that would change their lives forever. As they navigate the challenges of his ongoing illness, including multiple hospitalizations and the uncertainty of a new heart transplant, they find solace in their faith and learn to trust God through suffering.
11/29/2025
As the holiday season approaches, many couples struggle to maintain marital bliss amidst the chaos of schedules and expectations. By incorporating simple yet meaningful romantic traditions, such as cozy nights by the fire or a fun wrapping party for two, couples can shift their focus from stress to connection and create a more loving Christmas together.
11/28/2025
Financial disagreements in marriage can be a source of pain and anger, but they often hide deeper concerns that require empathy and understanding from both partners. By exploring the underlying motivations behind your financial decisions, you can cultivate a safe space for open communication and nurture a stronger, more trusting relationship with your spouse.
11/27/2025
A growing trend of "little blue pill" commercials suggests a simplistic solution to marital issues, but the author argues that true love and intimacy require more than just physical enhancement. By exploring the biblical concept of "agape" love, which involves unconditional devotion and sacrifice, readers can discover a deeper understanding of what it means to truly love and be loved in marriage.
11/26/2025
When comparing our marriages to others can be a toxic trap, one couple's seemingly perfect relationship may actually be hiding its own struggles. By shifting focus from comparison to gratitude, couples can learn valuable lessons on how to navigate their own conflicts and strengthen their bond.
11/25/2025
Real love is often misconstrued as a feeling or a romantic ideal, but according to Bob Lepine's book "Love Like You Mean It", genuine love requires hard work and commitment, including patience, kindness, humility, and sacrifice. By examining the heart of your love, you can determine if it aligns with God's definition of real love, which prioritizes honoring Him above all else.
11/24/2025
As couples navigate the complexities of financial stewardship and generosity, one husband and wife share their personal journey of learning to prioritize radical giving in marriage, finding that Jesus' example is both attractive and transformative. By embracing a more generous approach to life, couples can experience a deeper sense of love, trust, and fulfillment in their relationships.
11/23/2025
As a backup vocalist, the author has discovered that finding harmony in relationships requires prioritizing one's relationship with God, rather than letting personal passions and desires take center stage. By allowing God to "sing lead," couples can cultivate a deeper, more Christ-like love for each other, leading to a fuller and more harmonious union.
11/22/2025
Living in Hawaii can be a blessing, but it's easy to take the good things for granted when we're surrounded by beauty and vacation opportunities. A thought-provoking article encourages readers to shift their focus from what's lacking in their own marriages to the many blessings they already have, helping them cultivate gratitude and find hope in even the most challenging relationships.
11/21/2025
As the Pilgrims' first Thanksgiving story teaches us, life is often not what we expect, but God's restorative power can bring healing to even the most challenging marriages. By applying four timeless lessons - that God is worthy of praise, there is always hope for tomorrow, we're better together, and seasons change - couples can find restoration and renewal in their relationships.
11/20/2025
When a terminal diagnosis forces a couple to confront the fragility of life, they must choose whether their love will endure. By reflecting on their wedding vows and recommitting to faithfulness in the face of uncertainty, couples can find strength in their relationship and say "I choose us" even when the road ahead is uncertain.
11/19/2025
One year into marriage, a couple's relationship had already become unbearable, yet they remained committed due to an unspoken agreement that divorce wouldn't be an option. By acknowledging and reaffirming this "no retreat" clause, couples can rekindle their love, pray for each other, and work towards forgiveness and understanding.
11/18/2025
As the holiday season approaches, toxic thoughts can easily invade our minds and relationships, but there are ways to stop them. By re-imaging unrealistic expectations and returning to prayer with God, we can shift from self-pity and bitterness to His love, acceptance, and delight.
11/17/2025
During the holiday season, stress and pressure can lead to toxic thoughts in our marriages, causing us to misinterpret others' behavior and intentions. By recognizing these patterns and replacing them with gracious truths, we can cultivate a more loving and accepting attitude towards our spouses, even in the midst of chaos.
11/16/2025
As a family navigated the darkest days of their marriage, they discovered that cultivating gratitude was the key to finding hope and trust in God's goodness. By embracing this discipline, they found that thankfulness and worship were not just feelings, but a way of life that transformed their home and deepened their faith.
11/15/2025
When life's marriage is at its lowest, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. By focusing on five essential things that remain unchanging regardless of our circumstances - faith, creation, love, suffering, and surrender - we can shift our perspective and find gratitude in the darkest moments.
11/14/2025
A good marriage is built on intimacy and connection, with kissing being a crucial aspect of this bond, according to author Lisa Lakey, who draws inspiration from biblical teachings to make the case for prioritizing physical affection in relationships. By embracing a daily kissing routine, couples can strengthen their emotional connection and cultivate a deeper sense of unity, as encouraged by 1 Corinthians 7:5.
11/13/2025
When it comes to discussing spirituality with our spouses, we often struggle with how to approach the conversation without feeling cringeworthy or judgmental. By taking an honest look at our own motivations, understanding our partner's underlying concerns, and placing our trust in God, we can create a safe space for spiritual growth and healing in our marriage.
11/12/2025
When libido is asymmetrical in a marriage, it can lead to intense heart issues and feelings of isolation. By opening up communication, speaking life, and getting intentional with small changes, couples can work together to overcome these challenges and reignite their connection.
11/11/2025
As a woman in 25% of marriages, having a higher libido than her partner can be a source of emotional pain and insecurity, affecting not just physical needs but also the soul. By exploring the complex interplay between emotional issues, assumptions, and actual desire, this article offers a nuanced understanding of the challenges faced by high-libido spouses and provides practical guidance for healing and unity.
11/10/2025
As we navigate our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in distractions and tune out the people closest to us - our spouses. By making a conscious effort to truly listen to one another, we can cultivate deeper connections, resolve conflicts, and prioritize the needs of others, just as God prioritizes our cries when we pray.
11/09/2025
Conflict in marriage often leads to one partner feeling victorious, but at what cost? By shifting our focus from winning arguments to truly understanding and honoring each other's perspectives, couples can find a more meaningful resolution that benefits both parties.
11/08/2025
A recent article by Lisa Lakey shares a relatable story about the challenges of relying on technology to communicate with her husband while he's away. The author learns a valuable lesson about not trusting autocorrect to convey emotions, highlighting the importance of human connection and face-to-face communication in relationships.
11/07/2025
The Clairol Corporation's launch of Miss Clairol hair-color bath in 1956 revolutionized the beauty industry, but a more profound impact was made by its advertising slogan "Does she... or doesn't she?" which resonated with Americans' desire to know for sure if their spouse truly loved them. This article explores how God's definition of love is radically different from societal expectations and encourages readers to let their commitment to their spouse be evident through self-sacrificing actions.
11/06/2025
A wife's journey to confidence and empowerment is sparked by her husband's willingness to let go of control, allowing her to learn and grow through mistakes. By stepping back and trusting her abilities, he instills in her a sense of self-assurance that can have far-reaching benefits for their marriage.
11/05/2025
Discover the hidden treasures of old growth sinker cypress wood, a centuries-old material with unparalleled beauty and character, and learn how its unique history can inspire your marriage in unexpected ways. By exploring this extraordinary wood, you'll uncover valuable lessons on the importance of perseverance, discovery, and the enduring value of life's experiences.
11/04/2025
As the author reflects on his three marriages, he reveals that each wife has evolved into a unique version of herself, and he must adapt to this change in order to maintain their relationship. By embracing the impermanence of love and taking proactive steps to reconnect with his partner, the author shares a powerful message about the importance of growth and understanding in marriage.
11/03/2025
A frustrated husband's 12-year struggle with a stubborn laundry room door has become a metaphor for the daily annoyances that test his patience, but he wonders if these small frustrations can actually help him grow in endurance and patience. By embracing biblical patience as a means of spiritual growth, he invites readers to consider how their own pet peeves might be opportunities for transformation.
11/02/2025
Knowing your spouse's preferences and quirks can be a powerful way to show love and affection in marriage. By actively seeking to understand each other's idiosyncrasies and celebrating our differences, couples can create a safe space for vulnerability and deepen their connection with one another.
11/01/2025
As a couple navigates the ups and downs of marriage, finding balance and alignment is crucial for a strong and healthy relationship. By applying the principles of pottery, where centering the clay is essential for creating something beautiful, couples can learn to prioritize their faith and make God the central focus of their union.
October 202510/31/2025
Many people have gifts that make social interactions effortless for them, but their spouses may struggle. By recognizing and leveraging these differences, couples can create a stronger marriage where each person's unique strengths are used to serve and support one another.
10/30/2025
As newlyweds navigate the challenges of married life, they may discover that their differences are not weaknesses, but rather opportunities for growth and strengthening their relationship. By embracing their unique perspectives and learning to see them as gifts from God, couples can build a stronger foundation for a lifetime of love and commitment.
10/29/2025
A marriage expert shares a personal anecdote about the dangers of "doing it my way" in relationships, highlighting how this mindset can lead to resentment and undermine trust. By recognizing our own selfishness and learning to let go of control, couples can cultivate a more loving and supportive partnership that prioritizes mutual respect and confidence.
10/28/2025
A job rejection can be devastating, but for one couple, it became a turning point that brought them closer together. After receiving a unanimous "no" from their dream employer, they found strength in each other and discovered that two is indeed better than one.
10/27/2025
Effective communication is the foundation of a healthy marriage, and our words have the power to either build up or tear down our relationships. By applying the biblical principle of Ephesians 4:29, couples can transform their speech into a tool that gives grace and builds love, leading to a stronger and more resilient connection.
10/26/2025
A close friend's brutal honesty about a recent argument with his wife is a wake-up call for the author to reevaluate his own behavior and seek out friends who will challenge him to grow and discern the next right step. By embracing friendships that speak truth in love, individuals can avoid wallowing in self-centered pity and instead find the courage to do what's right, even when it's hard.
10/25/2025
A husband's surprise revelation that he's not his wife's father sparks a conversation about breaking free from parenting stereotypes and seeking individual love and connection in marriage. By examining the biblical example of Jesus' personalized interactions with individuals, couples can uncover new ways to respectfully "leave and cleave" from their past patterns and cultivate a deeper, more meaningful relationship.
10/24/2025
Overcommitting can have a profound impact on one's life, draining energy and joy from relationships, marriage, and personal growth. By recognizing the underlying motivations behind overcommitment, individuals can break free from the cycle of burnout and discover a more balanced, loving approach to living life.
10/23/2025
A husband's journey to understanding and embracing his wife's passion for wedding planning, leading him to discover the joy of shared interests and a deeper connection in their marriage. By stepping into her world, he found a way to respect and support her dreams, ultimately strengthening their relationship and creating a lasting impact on their lives together.
10/22/2025
The author shares a personal account of navigating the darkest moments in her marriage, only to discover that these trials can become opportunities for growth and love. By embracing God's supernatural gentleness and trust, she found that even the most painful experiences could be transformed into powerful expressions of Jesus' message of forgiveness and sacrifice.
10/21/2025
A well-intentioned but nagging spouse can be a source of frustration on the road, but research suggests that giving them breathing room to navigate can actually improve the driving experience for both parties. By overlooking minor mistakes and focusing on the bigger picture, couples can create a more enjoyable and supportive dynamic in their daily interactions.
10/20/2025
A marriage detox offers a fresh approach to revitalize and strengthen relationships, involving simple yet profound changes such as digital detoxes, spiritual nourishment, and rejuvenation through shared activities. By implementing these "cleansing" elements, couples can break free from the toxic byproducts of modern life and cultivate a deeper connection with each other and God.
10/19/2025
Conflict often arises from unmet desires beneath the surface of an apparent issue, such as a forgotten towel on the floor. By seeking to understand what motivates your spouse, you may uncover surprising solutions and resolve conflicts in a more meaningful way.
10/18/2025
As a marriage navigates the complexities of love and differences, one woman shares her journey of learning to appreciate the unique ways her husband shows love, revealing that true devotion requires patience, humility, and compassion. By embracing these qualities, couples can cultivate a deeper connection and strengthen their bond, as inspired by Colossians 3:12-14.
10/17/2025
When the person you fell in love with becomes more like a roommate, it can be a challenging reality to face. By taking intentional steps to nurture friendships outside of your marriage, eliminating unspoken expectations, and seeking wisdom and courage from God, you can work towards rekindling the love and connection that once brought you together.
10/16/2025
A husband's struggle with pornography threatens to upend his marriage, but a powerful moment of forgiveness and love ultimately restores their relationship. Through a personal story of redemption and the biblical promise of God's faithfulness, this article offers practical guidance on how to heal and rebuild trust after infidelity or hidden sin.
10/15/2025
A men's retreat turned into an unexpected moment of vulnerability when one participant shared his personal struggle with pornography, revealing that all the other attendees had similar experiences, and their courage in confessing allowed them to support each other. By sharing their struggles, these men found healing and a sense of community, highlighting the importance of confession and accountability in overcoming hidden sins.
10/14/2025
A husband's quest for clear answers from his wife leads him to question whether her hesitation is a defect or a sign of deeper issues, prompting him to reevaluate their communication approach. By slowing down and exhibiting understanding, he hopes to create space for meaningful conversations and strengthen their relationship.
10/13/2025
As a parent of four, the author has learned that doing laundry is not just about washing clothes, but also about maintaining a healthy relationship with one's partner. By acknowledging the parallels between dirty laundry and marital conflicts, this article offers practical advice on how to prioritize reconciliation over household chores.
10/12/2025
A wife's explosive tantrum in marriage was unexpectedly transformed into a turning point by her husband's unwavering response of unconditional love, revolutionizing their relationship. This personal story illustrates the transformative power of loving one another earnestly, even when we are at our worst.
10/11/2025
A half-marathon runner's quest for endurance is mirrored in the universal struggle of maintaining energy and vitality, as author Janel Breitenstein explores the concept of "bonking" and its parallels with spiritual rest and rejuvenation. By embracing the idea that limitations are an inherent part of human experience, readers can discover practical ways to prioritize self-care and surrender to God's rhythms for a more balanced and fulfilling life.
10/10/2025
The idea that roses without thorns may be too perfect has resonated with the author, who reflects on her own marriage and the fear of surrendering to unconditional love. By exploring this concept through biblical verses and personal anecdotes, the article invites readers to consider the benefits of embracing "too much perfection" in their relationships with God and others.
10/09/2025
A husband discovers a surprising insight into his communication style with his wife, forcing him to reevaluate how he interacts with her in comparison to his relationships with colleagues and friends. By examining the differences between his conversations with Amy and those with others, he comes to realize that truly listening to his wife is essential for building a stronger connection at home.
10/08/2025
A couple's desperate prayer for help in a life-or-death situation led to an unexpected and dramatic answer from their employer, sparking a reflection on the power of prayer in everyday problems. By shifting their perspective from last-resort prayers to first-resort ones, couples can transform their relationships and find peace in the midst of chaos.
10/07/2025
A casual online message from an ex can quickly escalate into a breach of marital trust, with one in three divorce cases now attributed to online affairs. By being proactive and open about social media use, couples can protect their relationships and maintain the integrity that is essential for a secure and fulfilling partnership.
10/06/2025
Dealing with a spouse who is not a talker can be challenging, but finding that sweet spot where both partners' needs are met and wants are expressed is key to a healthy marriage. By asking if your partner is ready to talk, finding their rhythm, and using open-ended questions to invite them in, you can create space for meaningful conversations and deepen your connection with each other.
10/05/2025
As an introvert, my husband's love for people often leaves me feeling like I'm talking to a brick wall - but what if we could break down his barriers and connect on a deeper level? By adopting gentle strategies such as active listening, adapting our communication style, and prioritizing mutual understanding, couples can cultivate a more meaningful and fulfilling conversation.
10/04/2025
Living on the road with two toddlers and facing numerous challenges, a family's perspective on gratitude is put to the test when they experience a devastating flash flood that claims the lives of seven staff members. In this heart-wrenching story, the authors discover that even in the midst of tragedy, God can use their struggles as opportunities for growth and gratitude.
10/03/2025
A cluttered home can have a profound impact on relationships, and one couple discovered that cleaning their room together brought them closer and reduced stress. By imposing order on the chaos of clutter, they created a fresh environment for connection and renewal, highlighting the unexpected benefits of tidying up in marriage.
10/02/2025
When a marriage seems irreparably broken, prayer can be a powerful catalyst for transformation. By shifting our focus from others to ourselves, praying for spiritual growth, sacrificial love, and restoration, we can invite God's miraculous intervention in our most desperate moments.
10/01/2025
A seemingly minor household accident can escalate into a full-blown marital crisis, as one man recounts his own "Poopocalypse" experience with his Roomba, revealing how our thoughts can quickly spiral out of control in relationships. By applying biblical principles, listeners can learn to capture and overcome negative thought patterns, restoring their marriage to its former freshness.
September 202509/30/2025
To cultivate a deeper, more loving relationship with your spouse, consider the transformative power of active listening, which can help you become fully present and engaged with one another. By adopting simple yet profound practices such as setting aside distractions, offering compassion and understanding, and prioritizing your partner's feelings, you can move from mere communication to meaningful connection.
09/29/2025
Are you struggling to truly connect with your partner in meaningful conversations? This article, part of a series on communication in marriage, offers practical tips and insights to help you improve your listening skills and strengthen your relationship.
09/28/2025
A husband surprises his wife with a cherry limeade at work, but takes it to the next level by joking that they're married and have kissed before, leaving her mortified. The unexpected gesture earns him points not only from his wife, but also from their colleagues and teachers, highlighting the power of playful flirting in marriage.
09/27/2025
As a young wife and new Christian, the author struggled with outdated notions of marital roles, leading to resentment in her marriage. By re-examining biblical teachings on marriage and home life, she reveals three essential truths that can help couples achieve a healthier balance and more fulfilling relationships.
09/26/2025
God's concept of celebration is deeply rooted in His nature, as seen throughout the Bible, where parties and feasts are often used to express joy and worship. By embracing this mindset, Christian marriages can become ecosystems of celebratory bliss, prioritizing enjoyment and love for one another, leading to a more fulfilling and joyful union.
09/25/2025
When life's surprises, both good and bad, come knocking on the door of marriage, it can be a test of trust - but is that trust misplaced? By examining how we respond to these unexpected twists, we can discover whether our expectations or faith are driving our reactions.
09/24/2025
As a couple, Laura Way and her husband navigated the challenges of serving together on an overseas ministry team, only to discover that comparison and competition threatened their marriage. By learning to prioritize humility and mutual support, they were able to cultivate a deeper sense of unity and purpose in their relationship.
09/23/2025
As a couple navigates the inevitable gaps in their relationship, they must confront the daunting task of bridging the divide between them. By applying three practical yet powerful strategies - prayer, taking baby steps, and open communication - couples can overcome their fears and cross the bridges that stand between them, ultimately healing and strengthening their marriage.
09/22/2025
As a couple navigates the ups and downs of marriage, they must confront their own "fair-weather fan" mentality and learn to persevere through tough times. By embracing selflessness and humility, couples can transform their relationship into a winning team that endures even the toughest seasons.
09/21/2025
A father's experience with thirst in the Texas summer heat serves as a powerful metaphor for the boundless mercy and love of God, offering a refreshing reminder to "chug" on faith and share it with others. In this episode of Real Life Loading..., Alisa Childers shares her personal struggles with doubt and invites listeners to take a fresh drink from God's kindness, revitalizing their lives and marriages.
09/20/2025
Marriage can be likened to having superhuman expectations for our spouses, but what happens when reality sets in and we're faced with the imperfections of a human partner? By recognizing and letting go of these unrealistic expectations, couples can learn to support each other through life's challenges and cultivate a deeper, more patient love.
09/19/2025
A 4-year-old's desperate plea for cookies reveals a universal human struggle, as we all seek satisfaction and relief from life's challenges, often turning to sin as a misguided solution. By acknowledging the destructive nature of sin and seeking spiritual cleansing through Christ, individuals can break free from its grip and live a life of purpose and holiness.
09/18/2025
In a humorous yet insightful article, author Bruce Goff shares nine words that can shut down an argument with his wife, but warns against using them as a winning strategy. Instead, he advocates for self-reflection and active listening to address blind spots in one's own life before attempting to correct those of their partner.
09/17/2025
A devoted wife's struggle to reconcile her desire for selflessness with her own deep-seated longings is revealed in this personal and introspective essay, exploring how people-pleasing can lead to manipulation and undermine true love. By examining her own experiences and the biblical example of Jesus' surrender in the Garden of Gethsemane, the author offers a powerful call to honesty and authenticity in relationships.
09/16/2025
A frustrated wife shares her personal experience with the silent treatment, a tactic she initially uses to cope with arguments, but ultimately finds ineffective in resolving issues. By exploring this common marital struggle, she offers a refreshing alternative approach that prioritizes communication, respect, and finding common ground over being "right".
09/15/2025
A man's life is forever changed when his estranged brother dies, prompting him to reevaluate his own marriage and consider how he can make a positive impact on his family's lives. Through a personal journey of reflection and introspection, he discovers the importance of making choices that bring blessing and relief to those around him.
09/14/2025
A simple phrase can hold immense power in a marriage, and for one couple, saying "Let's go out" has become a daily ritual that rekindles romance and strengthens their bond. By incorporating regular date nights into their routine, this husband shares how these small gestures have transformed their relationship and inspired others to do the same.
09/13/2025
A recently laid-off man struggles with feelings of inadequacy as he navigates the job market, but finds solace in rediscovering his identity as a child of God and follower of Christ. By re-examining his relationship with his spouse through the lens of biblical truth, he learns to respond differently to criticism and cultivate a more positive outlook on life.
09/12/2025
A faulty understanding of God is often at the root of marital problems, according to author Justin Talbert, who shares how his own marriage was impacted by incorrect beliefs about God. By examining the connection between theology and relationships, Talbert offers practical advice on how husbands can love their spouses like Christ loved the Church.
09/11/2025
As a parent, navigating the delicate balance between spending quality time with children and nurturing a fulfilling marriage can be a daunting task, but prioritizing one's relationship is crucial for long-term happiness. By recognizing that love is not a scarce resource, yet time and energy often are, individuals can make intentional choices to prioritize their spouse and cultivate a stronger, more meaningful partnership.
09/10/2025
A simple yet profound discovery made by the author decades ago has stuck with him, revealing that sometimes going against instinct can lead to progress and growth in both driving and relationships. By embracing the idea of being "good at being wrong," individuals can learn a valuable lesson from C.S. Lewis about the importance of admitting mistakes and turning back to find the right path.
09/09/2025
Marriages, like pottery, require heat and refinement to become a sturdy work of art, but it's in the midst of challenges that couples are given the opportunity to grow closer to each other and to Christ. By facing their struggles together and seeking help when needed, couples can emerge stronger and more resilient on the other side.
09/08/2025
A former cheerleader reflects on the misconception that a supportive partner means simply offering encouragement and agrees to share an insightful abstract.
09/07/2025
Fighting with one's partner can be a source of conflict, but what if instead of fighting against each other, we fought for each other? By prioritizing our partner's needs and desires above our own, we can experience "plushy peace" and deepen our love for one another.
09/06/2025
A husband's reluctant adoption of kombucha, a fermented tea drink, leads him to reflect on his marriage and the importance of letting go of control, as he realizes that his initial resistance was rooted in pride. By embracing his wife's suggestions, even those that challenge his comfort zone, he discovers a key aspect of God's gift for marriage: humility.
09/05/2025
Marriage is not just a celebration, but a journey through life's challenges, where couples must learn to overcome defeat and emerge stronger on the other side. By embracing the hard stuff and finding freedom in each other's failures, couples can discover the true meaning of love and joy that lies beyond the initial vows.
09/04/2025
A seasoned hiker's ill-fated climb up a mountain serves as a poignant metaphor for the challenges of marriage, highlighting the importance of being prepared and having a strong support system. By sharing his harrowing experience and drawing parallels with Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, Carlos Santiago offers practical advice on how to navigate life's toughest moments with courage and resilience.
09/03/2025
As we navigate the complexities of modern life, many of us struggle with being present in our relationships, often prioritizing distractions over genuine connection. By recognizing the psychological barriers that hinder presence and making a conscious effort to put down our mental earbuds, we can cultivate a deeper sense of love and connection with those around us.
09/02/2025
As technology advances, the simple yet profound phrase "I love you" remains an essential expression of devotion in marriage. By embracing this timeless sentiment, couples can rekindle their romance and strengthen their bond through creative expressions of affection.
09/01/2025
Discover how a sense of humor can be the unexpected key to strengthening your marriage and navigating life's challenges, as one woman shares her personal experience with laughter and its transformative power. By incorporating humor into your relationship, you can build a deeper connection, reduce stress, and cultivate a more authentic and joyful partnership.
August 202508/31/2025
When a spouse's spiritual distance can feel like a personal failure, one couple discovered that the key to healing wasn't control or manipulation, but rather creating space for vulnerability and trust. By anchoring each other in faithlessness, they found a fertile ground for authentic spirituality to grow, leading to a deeper understanding of God's mysterious plan.
08/30/2025
As a couple navigates life's ups and downs, they can learn valuable lessons from nature's cycles, particularly from squirrels who prepare for winter during the summer months. By adopting a similar mindset of loving extravagantly and storing up goodwill, couples can build a strong foundation for their relationship and weather life's challenges together.
08/29/2025
A husband recounts a harrowing experience during his wife's home birth, where she didn't recognize him due to blood loss and trauma, highlighting the importance of being known and loved in marriage. This personal anecdote serves as a catalyst for reflecting on the deeper meaning of love and connection in relationships, drawing inspiration from biblical passages that emphasize God's steadfast love and knowledge of humanity.
08/28/2025
A Southern summer concert turned into a chaotic downpour, but for one woman, it was a turning point in her perspective on marriage and faith. As she reflects on the experience, she shares how choosing a positive attitude can transform even the most challenging moments with her husband, offering hope and encouragement to readers who may be navigating their own marital struggles.
08/27/2025
A wife reflects on her tendency to engage in "highly flammable" arguments with her husband, and how the Bible's guidance on using words to build up rather than tear down has helped her transform her communication style. By acknowledging the impact of her words and seeking forgiveness, she shares a personal journey of growth and renewal that offers hope for healing and strengthening relationships.
08/26/2025
In an "opposites attract" marriage, relying on personality tests and labels can be misleading, as they risk reducing complex individuals to simplistic stereotypes. By recognizing the limitations of these tools, couples can focus on truly understanding and loving each other beyond surface-level categorizations.
08/25/2025
A 10-year-old Dr. Seuss book has been a staple on the author's read-aloud playlist, but its impact extends far beyond childhood, as it has changed his marriage by encouraging him to step out of his comfort zone and try new things. By embracing the idea that "you can't always get what you want," the author discovered he actually enjoys green eggs and ham, thanks in part to his wife's influence, offering a valuable lesson on personal growth and relational health.
08/24/2025
A man is forced to choose between his friends' approval and his wife's wishes, leading him to re-examine the promise he made to God about prioritizing his faithfulness in marriage. By submitting to his wife's needs, he discovers that true love requires putting others first, even when it's difficult.
08/23/2025
A 25-year-old marriage was put to the test when one partner's selfish desires threatened to derail their anniversary plans, but ultimately led to a renewed commitment to prioritizing love over personal interests. By learning to let go of self-centeredness and prioritize their spouse's happiness, this couple discovered a deeper level of connection and intimacy that strengthened their relationship.
08/22/2025
As a devoted wife, Janel Breitenstein reveals her surprising realization that her desire to be the "good example" she thinks others want her to be is actually rooted in her own self-love and ambition. In this honest and relatable article, Breitenstein explores how her pursuit of perfection has led to an imbalance in her relationships, and invites readers to examine their own motivations and priorities.
08/21/2025
Marital autopilot is a real phenomenon that can lead to missed opportunities, unmet needs, and even relationship breakdowns, as one partner may go through the motions without being fully present or engaged. By recognizing the signs of marriage hypnosis and making a conscious effort to be intentional in daily interactions, couples can cultivate a deeper connection and build a stronger, more lasting relationship.
08/20/2025
A self-help video recently encouraged people to "hug themselves," but author Ed Uszynski, who has spent two decades of marriage trying to prioritize his own needs, argues that this approach can lead to selfishness and stagnation. Instead, he suggests embracing the biblical principle of putting others' good before one's own, and finding fulfillment by "dying to oneself" for the glory of God.
08/19/2025
As Christians, we are called to embody the culture of Christ, transforming our marriages into a reflection of His glory, and spreading His fragrance in every aspect of life. By surrendering to God's purpose and asking for help, we can become the salt and light that brings life to those around us, even in the midst of everyday challenges like marriage.
08/18/2025
A woman's journey to break free from people-pleasing and discover her own strength and beauty in marriage is explored through personal anecdotes and biblical insights. By embracing leadership and advocacy, she finds herself empowered to flourish alongside her husband, rather than being held back by passive personlessness.
08/17/2025
A tiny stain on the ceiling of a home can be a metaphor for hidden sins in a marriage, which can slowly destroy intimacy and trust if left unaddressed. By exposing these secrets through courage and honesty, couples can prevent bitterness from poisoning their relationship and instead find healing and restoration through forgiveness and God's light.
08/16/2025
As a couple approaches the end of their "babymoon" phase, they must confront the reality that parenthood will soon become a priority, but neglecting each other can have long-term consequences. By prioritizing their relationship and making time for just the two of them, couples can build a stronger foundation for their marriage and ultimately benefit their children in the process.
08/15/2025
Ditching traditional babysitter costs and finding romance in the unlikeliest of places, one couple discovers the joy of "stay dates" - a creative and intentional way to reconnect with your partner amidst the chaos of family life. By planning a stay date, couples can reignite their spark, have fun, and remember why they fell in love, all while saving money and having a blast together.
08/14/2025
A misheard lyric can be a marriage-killer, but it's also an opportunity for growth and understanding. By acknowledging our own mistakes and taking the time to study each other's lyrics, couples can build stronger relationships and discover new ways to connect with each other.
08/13/2025
A bargain hunter's approach to marriage is put to the test when one partner offers a paltry $2 in commitment, highlighting the tension between settling for less and investing in a long-term relationship. By examining Jesus' example of selfless love and obedience, the author argues that true commitment requires more than just token gestures, but rather a willingness to put in the effort required to build a lasting partnership.
08/12/2025
As a couple navigates the ups and downs of life, doing their spouse "good" requires more than just good intentions - it demands intentional effort and sacrifice. By making small choices to bless each other, couples can experience the profound truth that "it is more blessed to give than to receive," as Jesus taught in Matthew 20:28.
08/11/2025
A popular magazine advice columnist suggests that "white lies" can be a form of social grace, but the author questions whether this approach truly embodies God's truth. By exploring the complexities of honesty and kindness in marriage, the article offers practical guidance on how to navigate difficult conversations with empathy and integrity.
08/10/2025
A successful surgery requires meticulous planning and execution, yet post-operative complications can still arise, including infections that can wreak havoc on the body. Similarly, unchecked sexual sin can fester and consume an individual's life, threatening to cripple their relationships, making it essential to establish barriers to protect one's marriage from such "infections".
08/09/2025
A couple's unconventional strategy for avoiding conflicts has yielded surprisingly positive results, allowing them to navigate heated arguments with greater ease and maintain their relationship. By introducing a simple yet effective "take it back" clause, they've learned to pause, reflect, and communicate more effectively, drawing on biblical principles of humility and self-awareness.
08/08/2025
A young couple's first major fight over a seemingly minor issue reveals underlying tensions and clashes of values that persist 25 years later. This personal anecdote serves as a catalyst for exploring what truly makes a marriage stronger, drawing on biblical principles and insights from experts David and Meg Robbins.
08/07/2025
A husband's flaws are often overlooked in favor of his strengths, but what happens when the pedestal is knocked off? A personal essay explores the author's journey of learning to see her partner as a human being, rather than a superhero, and finding freedom and growth in their relationship.
08/06/2025
When a seemingly minor disagreement escalates into full-blown conflict, it can be a revealing moment for our true character. By examining the root causes of anger and its destructive potential, we can learn to recognize when our emotions are taking over and take steps to reclaim our lives and relationships.
08/05/2025
A chance encounter with a volunteer at a FamilyLife Weekend to Remember event sparks a profound realization for the author about his own marriage and the power of intentional gratitude and admiration in relationships. By sharing a personal story of how cultivating positive thoughts about his wife transformed his life, the author invites readers to reflect on their own marriages and consider the impact of verbal affirmation on their partner's well-being.
08/04/2025
A newlywed shares a humorous anecdote about his wife's reaction to an unmet expectation, highlighting the importance of loving one another without strings attached. By examining this relatable scenario through the lens of biblical principles, readers can gain insight into how to cultivate a deeper, more selfless love in their own marriages.
08/03/2025
A pastor's idealized family background contrasts sharply with the author's own experiences of poverty, violence, and faithlessness, highlighting the challenges of following God in a world where righteous living can be uncomfortable and even threatening. By examining their own spiritual legacy and the choices they make for themselves and their households, individuals can choose to serve someone different and live out their faith in a way that is authentic and meaningful.
08/02/2025
As parents, Lisa Lakey and her husband experienced a profound shift in their relationship, transforming from carefree couples to frazzled caregivers. In this candid essay, Lakey shares the challenges of maintaining emotional, physical, and spiritual connection with her spouse during the busy years of parenting, offering practical advice on how to stay close despite life's demands.
08/01/2025
As we navigate the complexities of marriage and conflict, it's essential to consider when to confront and when to overlook, just as a photographer must balance focus on beauty with attention to imperfection. By examining questions like these, couples can learn to apply biblical principles of patience and kindness to create a culture of unmerited forgiveness in their relationships.
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As Christ followers, the Holy Spirit is the unbreakable connection that binds husbands and wives together in marriage, forming an unshakeable bond that lasts forever. By cultivating spiritual intimacy through honesty, active listening, and shared prayer, couples can tap into this powerful force to strengthen their relationship and overcome life's challenges.
07/30/2025
A husband's willingness to tell his wife the unvarnished truth, even when it's uncomfortable, can be a powerful catalyst for growth and intimacy in their relationship. By embracing this approach, couples can build trustworthiness and foster a deeper understanding of each other's struggles and weaknesses.
07/29/2025
Many women struggle with feeling like they're juggling too many responsibilities, leading to an "I've got this" attitude that can be exhausting for themselves and their loved ones. By praying for their wives' roles as caregivers, workers, and mothers, husbands can help them let go of control and find peace in Jesus.
07/28/2025
A box of Twinkies sold for $5,150 in 2000, highlighting how much value we place on the things we love. In a thought-provoking exploration, one man reflects on the sacrifices he makes for his wife, seeking to demonstrate her worth through everyday decisions and biblical principles.
07/27/2025
Discovering a mild colorblindness at 20 led the author to reflect on his emotional limitations and how they impact intimacy with his wife, leading him to explore the connection between emotions and deeper realities within us. By examining the underlying causes of anger and practicing open communication, he found helpful insights into breaking down feelings to foster greater emotional intimacy in his marriage.
07/26/2025
As we navigate the demands of modern life, our marriages can easily become lost in the clutter of distractions, leading to a lack of true presence with our spouses. By prioritizing quality time together and making intentional choices about how we spend our days, couples can elevate their relationships above the chaos and cultivate a deeper sense of connection and love.
07/25/2025
As a new mom, Janel Breitenstein realized that sleep often took priority over intimacy with her husband, but she knew their relationship needed the restorative power of sex. By incorporating simple yet effective strategies into their daily routine, such as prioritizing exercise and date nights, they can reignite the spark and deepen their emotional connection.
07/24/2025
A frazzled mom shares her chaotic day, but instead of dwelling on failure, she finds solace in the promise of Jesus' perfect love and acceptance, reminding readers that it's okay not to be okay. By embracing God's grace and imperfection, we can find rest and renewal, even in the midst of life's messiness.
07/23/2025
Marriage communication is often misunderstood as simply talking, but a successful relationship requires depth and intimacy in conversations. By learning four key strategies - dealing with fear, finding the right time, not trying to win, and identifying core needs - couples can transform shallow discussions into meaningful connections that strengthen their bond.
07/22/2025
Meet the Wilsons, a loving couple who embody the love of Jesus through their kindness and generosity, inspiring one writer to discover her own faith. By studying this remarkable marriage, couples can learn valuable lessons on what it means to live out their faith in everyday life and become positive influences in those around them.
07/21/2025
When a job loss forces a couple to reevaluate their life plans, it can become an opportunity for growth and unity. By embracing the challenge of leaving their parents' influence behind, a husband and wife can discover new strengths in each other and build a stronger, more independent relationship.
07/20/2025
In a candid exploration of the unspoken topics in marriage, a writer shares her personal experience of confronting a taboo subject with her father-in-law, revealing the importance of vulnerability and open communication. By embracing courage and honesty, couples can build a deeper, more loving relationship, as encouraged by biblical principles such as Genesis 2:25.
07/19/2025
Waking up next to a stranger can be a jarring reality for many couples, but what if this unexpected encounter is an opportunity to rekindle the spark of love and connection? By intentionally learning about your spouse's growth and evolution, you can rediscover the person you married and reignite the flame that once burned bright.
07/18/2025
The royal crown jewels were secretly hidden away during World War II, but a more precious treasure is often overlooked - the love of God in our marriages. By embracing sacrifice and imperfection, we can showcase the radical commitment to one another that reflects God's glory, just as Jesus' life did.
07/17/2025
A father's outdated expectations of chivalry are challenged when his daughter marries a modern man who still shows her kindness and respect, highlighting the importance of mutual affection in marriage. By prioritizing showing love and appreciation for each other, couples can strengthen their relationships and overcome shortcomings, as encouraged by biblical principles such as 1 Peter 4:8.
07/16/2025
The author reflects on the classic movie Rocky, noticing its portrayal of a great love story between Rocky and Adrian, and draws parallels with her own marriage, encouraging readers to consider how they can be their partner's "person" in a similar way. By examining biblical passages such as Genesis 2 and Galatians 6:2, the author invites readers to explore ways to actively support and encourage their spouse, fostering a deeper sense of connection and partnership.
07/15/2025
Marriage is not designed to fill every emotional gap, but rather to provide a foundation for community and connection. By recognizing that our spouses were never meant to complete us, we can shift from idolatrous expectations to humble gratitude, leading to a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.
07/14/2025
A thriving sex life has long been linked to health benefits, but what really makes couples connect in the bedroom may be more than just physical attraction or frequency of intimacy. By incorporating simple yet meaningful practices such as daily connection, flirting, and building up each other's self-image, couples can foster a healthy and fulfilling relationship that prioritizes emotional and spiritual connection over temptation.
07/13/2025
A young writer's carefree road trips with his single friends took a drastic turn when he married and realized the importance of planning and prioritizing his partner's needs. By embracing humility and putting his wife's interests first, he learned that true adventure comes from serving others and making sacrifices for the greater good.
07/12/2025
A 4-year-old boy's powerful apology to his mother, who had yelled at him, reveals the profound impact of forgiveness on relationships. By embracing forgiveness as a promise to not dwell on hurt, seek revenge, or gossip, couples can experience freedom and witness the gospel in their own lives and marriages.
07/11/2025
Focusing on the positive aspects of our relationships can have a profound impact on our daily interactions and overall well-being. By choosing to cultivate gratitude and thanksgiving in our marriages, we can shift from complaining to appreciating the efforts and thoughtfulness of our partners, leading to a more harmonious and fulfilling relationship.
07/10/2025
Marital conflicts can be a source of frustration, but research suggests that up to 69% of couples' disputes are irreconcilable - yet this truth can actually be liberating when approached with the right mindset. By recognizing that differences are not inherently wrong, but rather a matter of personal preference, couples can learn to navigate and resolve their most persistent disagreements in a way that fosters peace and understanding.
07/09/2025
A wife's prayers are often misguided, shifting blame and responsibility to her husband, but a shift in approach is needed to truly support their marriage; by examining our own hearts and seeking humility, we can learn to pray for our spouses with intention and effectiveness.
07/08/2025
A heated argument over misplaced tickets can quickly escalate into a full-blown fight, but what if the real battle is not about who's at fault, but about choosing to forgive? By understanding that forgiveness isn't about condoning wrongdoing, but rather about releasing resentment and choosing love, couples can transform even the most bitter conflicts into opportunities for growth and healing.
07/07/2025
A massive silver cross stands outside a porn store in Tennessee, serving as a metaphor for redemption and forgiveness in relationships. By embracing the power of the cross, couples can find healing and restoration from their darkest sins, including infidelity and other relationship-destroying behaviors.
07/06/2025
Real romance in marriage is not about a single, magical moment, but rather a lifelong commitment to delight and intimacy, as emphasized by Proverbs 5:19. By shifting our focus from fleeting foot pops to genuine connection, couples can cultivate a deeper, more meaningful relationship that brings joy and fulfillment for years to come.
07/05/2025
Researchers have discovered that 70% of highly happy couples use non-verbal cues, known as "haptics," to communicate playfulness, safety, and togetherness in their relationships. By incorporating simple, everyday gestures like foot wrestling or gentle taps on the arm, couples can strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling marriage.
07/04/2025
A recent Italian study found that the brain chemistry of passion in new relationships lasts only two years, raising questions about whether passion is essential for a long-lasting marriage. Research suggests that passion in marriage can be fueled by intentional acts of love and affection, such as creative date nights and romantic gestures, which can help create a deeper connection with one's partner.
07/03/2025
Living with a spouse can be a challenging experience, as we often struggle to overlook minor offenses that can create tension in our relationships. By choosing grace over perfection, couples can create a refuge from conditional love and cultivate a deeper sense of connection and understanding through the 30-Day Oneness Prayer Challenge.
07/02/2025
Marriage requires a unique blend of trust, teamwork, and mutual support, as couples learn to put aside their individual differences and work together towards a common goal. By embracing unity of mind, sympathy, and humility, couples can cultivate a deeper connection and become an unstoppable team, with the help of FamilyLife's 30-Day Oneness Prayer Challenge.
07/01/2025
Praying daily with your spouse can be a powerful way to reignite intimacy and connection in your marriage, but it may not come from where you expect. By committing just five minutes a day to praying together, you can discover renewed purpose, unified desire, and a deeper understanding of each other's hearts.
