Black Sunday
“If he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times comes back to you and says, ‘I repent,’ forgive him.”
Luke 17:4
Every family has moments they’d rather forget—moments that later call for understanding and forgiveness. When our children lived at home, we found that Sunday was often the most frustrating day of the week, especially during the “get ’em ready for church” routine. But Black Sunday was uniquely chaotic!
Jim and I began the day by getting up late, which meant that every‐one had to rush to prepare for church. Then there was the matter of spilled milk at breakfast and the black shoe polish on the floor. Finally, Ryan, who was dressed first, managed to slip out the back door and get himself dirty from head to toe. As these irritations mounted, the criticism and accusations flew back and forth. At least one spanking was delivered and another three or four were promised.
After the Sunday evening service we called the family together. We described the day we’d had and asked each person to forgive us for our part in it. We also gave each member of the family a chance to express his or her feelings. Ryan was given his first shot, and he fired it at me. “You’ve been a real grouch today, Mom!” he said with feeling. “You’ve blamed me for everything all day long.” Danae then poured out her hostilities and frustrations. Finally, Jim and I had an opportunity to explain the tensions that had caused our overreaction. It was a valuable time of ventilation and honesty that drew us together once more. We then had prayer as a family and asked the Lord to help us live and work together in love and harmony.
No matter how hard we try, we will experience times when we fail to live up to our Christian principles. When those times arrive, discussion and forgiveness are the best methods for soothing wounded relation‐ships. I urge you at those moments to actively seek forgiveness from each other and from God and freely offer forgiveness in return.
While you’re at it, forgive yourself. If God can post a “No Fishing” sign by the sea where your sins are thrown, then so can you and I. - Shirley M Dobson
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This devotional is taken from Night Light for Couples. Copyright © 2000 by James Dobson, Inc. All rights reserved. Used with permission.
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If you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don't fall! (1 Cor. 10:12). Build a record of choices and deeds that proves to your partner you can be trusted at all times.
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And a husband must not divorce his wife (1 Cor. 7:11). The distress young children experience after a divorce remains with them throughout their lives.
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When faced with the breakup of her parents’ marriage, a hurting teenager used the following word picture in this letter to her father.
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Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share (1 Tim. 6:18). We are most like Christ when we show compassion and generosity to others.
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Even though you know you're guilty, you can't get the words out of your mouth.
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The fact is, boys and girls are different. God created us that way! Gender confusion, left to itself, is not only damaging to children as individuals, but it can tear families apart and ultimately undermine the stability of society. In our free digital resource,"Are Boys and Girls Really that Different?," Dr. James Dobson lays out the questionable history of this hot-button American issue of gender identity and contrasts it with timeless biblical truth. What can we, as parents do? And how can our culture regain some much-needed perspective?
