In this sober and pastoral response, Pastor Mike addresses a serious and sensitive question: whether pinning a spouse down on a bed constitutes physical assault, and what steps should follow. He explains that assault is still assault regardless of apologies, while also emphasizing the importance of repentance, safety, and discernment. Pastor Mike discusses the biblical role of government in addressing wrongdoing (Romans 13), the difference between repentance and legal accountability, and the wisdom of involving pastors, trusted family members, and—when necessary—law enforcement. This answer prioritizes personal safety, biblical clarity, and practical wisdom for navigating domestic violence concerns within marriage.
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Jesus isn't just a New Testament figure. He appears prominently throughout the Old Testament...and you can see it most poignantly in the ancient song book of Israel: The Psalms. Explore and appreciate the connections in the Psalms to the Messiah in the New Testament that point to his supremacy.
If you want to gain a profound understanding of the Messiah in the Old Testament, be sure to request the book Songs of the Son by Daniel Stevens.