“Shmily”
by Laura Jeanne Allen
My grandparents were married for over half a century. From the time they met each other they played their own special game. The goal of their game was to write the word “shmily” in a surprise place for the other to find. They took turns leaving “shmily” around the house, and as soon as one of them discovered it, it was his or her turn to hide it once more. They dragged “shmily” with their fingers through the sugar and flour containers to await whoever was preparing the next meal. They smeared it in the dew on the windows overlooking the patio where my grandma always fed us warm, homemade pudding with blue food color‐ing. “Shmily” was written in the steam on the bathroom mirror, where it would reappear after every hot shower. At one point, my grandmother even unrolled an entire roll of toilet paper to leave “shmily” on the very last sheet. There was no end to the places “shmily” popped up. Little notes with a hastily scribbled “shmily” were found on dashboards and car seats or taped to steering wheels. The notes were stuffed inside shoes and left under pillows. “Shmily” was written in the dust upon the mantel and traced in the ashes of the fireplace. This mysterious word was as much a part of my grandparents’ house as the furniture.
It took me a long time before I fully appreciated my grandparents’ game. Skepticism has kept me from believing in true love—one that is pure and enduring. However, I never doubted my grandparents’ relationship. They had love down pat. It was more than their flirtatious little games; it was a way of life. Their relationship was based on a devotion and passionate affection that not everyone experiences.
Grandma and Grandpa held hands every chance they could. They stole kisses as they bumped into each other in their tiny kitchen. They finished each other’s sentences and shared the daily crossword puzzle and word jumble. My grandma whispered to me about how cute my grandpa was, how handsome an old man he had grown to be. She claimed that she really knew “how to pick ’em.” Before every meal they bowed their heads and gave thanks, marveling at their blessings: a wonderful family, good fortune, and each other.
But there was a dark cloud in my grandparents’ life: My grand‐mother had breast cancer. The disease had first appeared ten years earlier. As always, Grandpa was with her every step of the way. He comforted her in their yellow room, painted that way so that she could always be surrounded by sunshine, even when she was too sick to go outside.
Now the cancer was again attacking her body. With the help of a cane and my grandfather’s steady hand, she went to church with him every Sunday. But my grandmother grew steadily weaker until, finally, she could not leave the house anymore. For a while, Grandpa would go to church alone, praying to God to watch over his wife. Then one day, what we all dreaded finally happened. Grandma was gone.
“Shmily.” It was scrawled in yellow on the pink ribbons of my grandmother’s funeral bouquet. As the crowd thinned and the last mourners turned to leave, my aunts, uncles, cousins, and other family members came forward and gathered around Grandma one last time. Grandpa stepped up to my grandmother’s casket and, taking a shaky breath, began to sing to her. Through his tears and grief, the song came, a deep and throaty lullaby.
Shaking with my own sorrow, I will never forget that moment. For I knew that, although I couldn’t begin to fathom the depth of their love, I had been privileged to witness its unmatched beauty.
S‐h‐m‐i‐l‐y: See How Much I Love You. Thank you, Grandma and Grandpa, for letting me see.
LOOKING AHEAD. . .
Is there any doubt that this tender couple knew the joy that springs from true love? That they understood the meaning of intimacy and commitment in marriage? Through a simple message sent in simple ways— traced in a flour container or on the bathroom mirror—this husband and wife continually expressed their love to each other for over fifty years. And when the time came for “Grandpa” to face the world alone, through his tears he sang his bride a lullaby that told her one last time, “See how much I love you!”
So many couples today reach the end of their days without ever experiencing such genuine love—the kind that includes stealing kisses, finishing each other’s sentences, and holding hands whenever possible. They sincerely desire a deep, intimate love, but they assume it will just “happen” somewhere along the way. When it doesn’t, disillusionment and even divorce follow.
We’ll talk this week about true love—what it means and how you can achieve it in marriage. I’ll close tonight’s reading with this question: What does true love mean to you?
- James C. Dobson
• “SHMILY” by Laura Jeanne Allen. © 1997. Used by permission of the author.
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This devotional is taken from Night Light for Couples. Copyright © 2000 by James Dobson, Inc. All rights reserved. Used with permission.
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A renowned author reflects on the fleeting nature of material wealth, sharing a personal experience of visiting "empty castles" in Britain that left a lasting impression, and invites readers to reevaluate their priorities and consider what truly matters in life. By examining the biblical verse Luke 12:20, this article encourages readers to assess their own values and seek a more meaningful legacy.
06/27/2026
A renowned evangelist's father shares a personal anecdote about the transformative power of giving, illustrating how God's blessings can far exceed human generosity, leading readers to reflect on their own trust in divine provision. By examining this heartwarming story and its biblical roots, readers will discover practical insights into trusting God with their finances and experiencing the abundance that comes from surrendering to His will.
06/26/2026
Many lottery winners struggle financially after winning, highlighting the importance of responsible spending and budgeting; by adopting simple yet effective financial habits, individuals can avoid debt and create a worry-free home environment. By prioritizing frugality, tithing, and discipline, people can break free from the cycle of financial stress and live in alignment with their values.
06/25/2026
A man's life is not measured by his possessions, but rather by how they impact his relationships and values. A personal anecdote turns into a profound reflection on materialism, inviting readers to reevaluate their own relationship with ownership and consider the true cost of accumulating wealth.
06/24/2026
The pursuit of wealth has long been a source of conflict and destruction in relationships, with the Bible warning that "where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." By examining our relationship with money and asking ourselves whom we truly serve, individuals can take steps to align their financial decisions with Jesus' teachings and build stronger marriages.
06/23/2026
A poor peanut vendor in South India is offered a lucrative job by John D. Rockefeller, but he declines to accept it, choosing instead to remain self-sufficient and proud of his own company. This parable serves as a warning to Christians about the dangers of materialism and the importance of surrendering one's life and belongings to God.
06/22/2026
A renowned Christian leader shares a personal story of learning to find joy in everyday life, highlighting the importance of shifting one's perspective from focusing on trials to embracing the abundance of God's love and provision. By understanding the magnitude of God's character and the selfless nature of His love, individuals can experience true joy that is not dependent on circumstances, but rather on their relationship with Him.
06/21/2026
Retired couples and stay-at-home spouses may be vulnerable to four common pitfalls that can drain their joy, including isolation, inactivity, self-pity, and despair, but there is hope for redemption through intentional connection, purposeful engagement, and a faith-based perspective on the future. By recognizing these traps and adopting strategies to avoid them, individuals can cultivate a more fulfilling life and discover the joy of eternity that awaits them.
06/20/2026
The notion of victimhood has become a pervasive cultural phenomenon, leading many to believe that they are the victims of systemic oppression, yet this perspective can be damaging and divisive. By examining the biblical concept of suffering and the importance of gratitude, we can discover a more empowering approach to life's challenges.
06/19/2026
When troubles seem insurmountable, reaching out to someone else can be a powerful antidote to despair, as sharing another's pain can also alleviate our own. By helping others, we not only lift their burdens but also find that ours are lightened, offering a profound paradox of the Christian life.
06/18/2026
Charlie Wedemeyer, a former high school teacher and football coach, has defied the odds of ALS by choosing to focus on his faith and inspiring thousands with his message of hope and resilience. Through his remarkable story, Charlie shares valuable insights on how to find strength in suffering and make the most of life's challenges.
06/17/2026
Living a happy life despite life's ups and downs requires a great measure of dependence on Jesus Christ, who can give us strength to overcome adversity. By examining our attitudes towards difficult events and seeking to emulate the positive spirit of Jesus Christ, we can learn to respond more positively to challenging circumstances.
06/16/2026
A chance encounter with a Salvation Army bell ringer sparks a moment of profound joy and connection for the author, who is struggling to find meaning in the midst of holiday chaos. As she reflects on this experience, the author reveals how the true message of Christmas - one of joy, love, and redemption - can be rediscovered and lived out every day.
06/15/2026
The biblical account of Queen Esther's courageous approach to her husband King Xerxes serves as a powerful example of the transformative power of honor in marriage, demonstrating how sincere respect can lead to remarkable results. By adopting the same level of reverence and deference typically reserved for royalty, couples can create a more loving, positive, and enjoyable home environment, even when they don't feel particularly close.
06/14/2026
As a child, your opinion of your parents is shaped by the relationship between them, with each parent influencing what you think of the other; now, it's time to flip this script and show honor to those who have raised you. By openly expressing love and admiration for your partner in front of your children, you can set a powerful example that will pay off for years to come.
06/13/2026
A husband's misguided attempt to win his wife's affection through grand gestures ultimately reveals the importance of humility in relationships, highlighting the need for genuine thoughtfulness and consideration in honoring one's partner. By examining a relatable anecdote and exploring questions about thoughtful gestures, this article encourages readers to reflect on their own marriages and prioritize building each other up.
06/12/2026
A popular party game that involves ridiculing a spouse in front of friends can be a stark contrast to the joy of building each other up in public, highlighting the importance of honoring one's partner in social settings. By shifting from criticism to praise and support, couples can strengthen their relationships and create a more positive atmosphere for themselves and those around them.
06/11/2026
Taking your partner for granted can lead to feelings of unappreciation and even infidelity, as many people seek recognition outside the home; by showing genuine appreciation for your spouse's talents and services, you can strengthen your marriage and foster a deeper sense of respect. By making honoring each other a reflex action, couples can avoid self-centeredness and cultivate a more fulfilling and loving relationship.
06/10/2026
The Bible emphasizes the importance of honoring one another, particularly in marriage, yet many couples neglect to do so, leading to feelings of undervalued and unappreciated partners. By re-examining scripture and reflecting on personal experiences, individuals can rediscover the simple yet meaningful ways to show honor to their loving life partner.
06/09/2026
A husband planned a surprise party for his wife's graduation, but with a twist - the celebration was all about her sacrifices and dedication to their shared goals, leaving him speechless in gratitude. By honoring his wife publicly, he created a lifelong romantic memorial that showcased the importance of mutual appreciation and respect in marriage.
06/08/2026
Building trust in marriage is crucial for its success, much like constructing a small house out of dominos, where every aspect is connected and the placement of each domino matters. Sharing intimate secrets with one's partner can be a powerful way to deepen trust and intimacy, but it requires careful consideration and vulnerability.
06/07/2026
Sharing intimate details with your partner can strengthen your bond, but beware of the fine line between openness and manipulation. By cultivating trust, commitment, and a willingness to listen, you can transform your marriage into a lifelong friendship that brings joy and fulfillment.
06/06/2026
A healthy marriage relies on open communication and trust, where partners feel safe sharing their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or embarrassment, fostering a deeper connection and stronger bond. By prioritizing vulnerability and honesty in your relationship, you can build a more intimate and secure partnership that brings healing and encouragement to both partners.
06/05/2026
If you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don't fall! (1 Cor. 10:12). Build a record of choices and deeds that proves to your partner you can be trusted at all times.
06/04/2026
To build strong foundations in your marriage, consider implementing simple yet effective guidelines for interacting with the opposite sex, fostering trust and reassurance in your relationship. By openly discussing boundaries and seeking permission from your partner, you can create a safe and secure environment that honors God's plan for unity and purity.
06/03/2026
As Satan seeks to destroy marriages through infidelity, couples must be vigilant in their commitment to one another, recognizing the enemy's tactics and relying on God's promises for protection and strength. By understanding God's Word on adultery and temptation, and applying biblical principles to build a "way of escape" from temptation, husbands and wives can fortify their marriage against Satan's attacks.
06/02/2026
A man's marriage is put to the test when his wife has a dream that he left her for another woman, Angela, a renowned surgeon, and as she struggles to reconcile her fears with reality, he must confront the possibility of infidelity and work to rebuild trust in their relationship. By exploring this common marital anxiety, the article offers insights into how trust is earned over time and how couples can build a secure and growing relationship founded on safety and confidence.
06/01/2026
The Bible's creation of fundamental differences between men and women in matters of sex is not a recipe for conflict, but rather a design for growth, excitement, and intimacy in marriage. By embracing our unique emotional and physical characteristics, couples can experience a deeper, more meaningful union that celebrates the diversity they bring to their relationship.
May 202605/31/2026
The Bible presents a clear and positive view of sex between marital partners, emphasizing its role as a means of expressing love and intimacy between husband and wife. By examining biblical accounts and symbolism, it becomes evident that God intended for sexual desire in marriage to be a beautiful and sacred aspect of human relationships.
05/30/2026
A TV show's crass questioning of newlyweds reveals disturbingly immature attitudes towards marriage and relationships, sparking a reflection on the importance of respecting intimacy in committed partnerships. The author argues that airing personal details without consideration can irreparably damage relationships, highlighting the need for couples to prioritize privacy and respect in their interactions.
05/29/2026
Understanding the 12-step bonding process can help couples strengthen their emotional connection and reinvigorate their sex life, but many people may be unaware of how they are progressing through these essential steps. By examining this progression and making conscious efforts to regularly experience each level of bonding, individuals can deepen their relationship and cultivate a lifelong bond with their partner.
05/28/2026
Marriage is a complex dance of intimacy and passion, with men and women approaching sex from fundamentally different perspectives, according to biblical principles outlined in 1 Corinthians 7:4. By understanding and embracing these differences, couples can unlock genuine passion and excitement in their relationships through thoughtful gestures, emotional connection, and mutual appreciation.
05/27/2026
A couple's sex life can be a source of great joy and intimacy in marriage, but when it's driven by the wrong motives, it can become an empty obligation. By understanding the true purpose of sex as designed by God, couples can shift from "having sex" to "making love", leading to deeper emotional and sexual connection with their partner.
05/26/2026
A chance encounter between two strangers in a New York City deli sparks a poignant observation about the power of human connection, as the author reflects on the quiet intimacy and comfort of an elderly couple holding hands. This introspective essay explores the distinction between physical intimacy and the deeper, more meaningful experience of making love, inviting readers to consider what it means to cultivate a truly fulfilling relationship.
05/25/2026
A devoted wife shares a heartwarming account of a romantic getaway to Mammoth, California, where she and her husband reconnected in a weekend of skiing, candlelit dinners, and cozy evenings by the fire, rediscovering the love that sustained their marriage. By prioritizing quality time together and making an effort to reignite romance, couples can revitalize their relationships and enjoy a lifetime of warmth and connection.
05/24/2026
A husband's heartfelt letter to his wife on their eighth wedding anniversary reveals a profound shift in their relationship, as he reflects on the ebbs and flows of romantic love and its ability to endure even on "ordinary" days. By exploring this theme, the couple invites readers to consider how they can cultivate serene love that surpasses fleeting emotional highs.
05/23/2026
Revisiting the places and events from your courtship or newlywed days can rekindle the spark in a stagnant marriage, allowing couples to relive fond memories and create new experiences together. By recreating first dates, revisiting favorite haunts, and making time for shared activities, couples can reignite their connection and strengthen their bond.
05/22/2026
A near-fatal car crash on the eve of a wedding serves as a poignant reminder that timing is everything, particularly when it comes to speaking words that can either heal or harm a relationship. This personal anecdote from a marriage counselor offers practical wisdom on how to protect romance and kindness in marriage, even in the face of criticism and adversity.
05/21/2026
The Song of Songs offers a profound exploration of romance, revealing its essence as a powerful blend of intimacy, emotional excitement, and devotion that ultimately culminates in the unbreakable bond of married love. Through this ancient biblical text, readers can gain valuable insights into the nature of romance and its transformative power, inspiring a deeper understanding of what it means to love and be loved.
05/20/2026
Understanding the nuances of romance in marriage is crucial for avoiding misunderstandings and keeping the flame of love burning brightly, as men and women often define it differently, with women focusing on emotional connection and men prioritizing physical attraction and respect. By recognizing and embracing these differences, couples can cultivate a deeper understanding of each other's needs and desires, ultimately strengthening their relationship.
05/19/2026
Bill Hybels, author of "Romance," recounts his journey learning the art of romance in marriage after discovering that his wife's lukewarm responses to his flower-giving gestures were a sign of deeper dissatisfaction with his lack of effort and thoughtfulness. Through a heart-to-heart conversation, Lynne reveals what she truly craves from her husband, revealing that true romance requires investment of time, energy, and attention to create a meaningful connection.
05/18/2026
A devoted Christian mother recounts a harrowing experience of being terrorized by fear, only to discover that God had protected her family from a burglary attempt, and shares the lesson she learned about trusting in divine providence. Through her personal story, Dobson reflects on the biblical promise of God's presence as an "ever-present help in trouble" and finds comfort in His faithfulness amidst uncertainty.
05/17/2026
When life is good, it's easy to forget God - but this can lead to arrogance and self-sufficiency, as Jesus warns in a parable about a rich farmer who prioritizes earthly pleasures over spiritual dependence. By recognizing the dangers of "blessedness" and making a conscious effort to trust and praise God daily, we can avoid falling into the same trap and cultivate a deeper sense of devotion.
05/16/2026
As the stresses of life threaten to pull couples apart, a surprising source of strength can provide peace and deliverance - trusting in God's promises. By recognizing marriage as a triangle with the Lord at its apex, couples can tap into His strength and experience joy, mercy, and provision in even the toughest times.
05/15/2026
As the Bible warns, placing our deepest faith in human beings can lead to severe disappointment, but what if we instead rely on God's power to build an unshakeable bond of trust in marriage? By committing ourselves to live according to God's ways and seeking His guidance, couples can develop a foundation of trust that is rooted in His unwavering character.
05/14/2026
A renowned author shares a personal story of finding guidance in the Bible, highlighting its enduring relevance in modern life and encouraging readers to prioritize Scripture reading as a couple. By exploring practical applications and insights from the Bible, individuals can deepen their trust in God's Word and apply its wisdom to everyday challenges.
05/13/2026
Learning to trust God requires a deeper understanding of the difference between faith and trust, as well as the courage to put our lives in His care despite uncertainty. By exploring what it means to have remarkable trust, readers can discover how this essential step can bring freedom from anxiety and deepen their relationship with God.
05/12/2026
A mother's life was in disarray as she faced mounting medical bills and job loss, but her young daughter Sarah's innocence and self-acceptance brought her a renewed sense of hope and faith in God's presence. As the author reflects on this experience, she shares how Sarah's unwavering trust in herself and others reminded her that God is always ready to carry our burdens and provide for us in times of need.
05/11/2026
A woman who fears God is not just a mythical ideal, but a practical guide for living a life of purpose and fulfillment, as revealed in Proverbs 31; by embracing this mindset, women can find contentment and honor in their roles as wives and mothers. By seeking God's will and direction, women can overcome intimidation and strive to be like the Proverbs 31 woman, who brings joy and blessing to her family and community.
05/10/2026
A harrowing camping experience turned into a bonding moment for the Smalley family, who discovered that sharing fun and frightful experiences deepened their relationship. By embracing each other's interests and activities, couples can create priceless memories and strengthen their companionship, even in the face of unexpected challenges.
05/09/2026
A deceitful wife can bring ruin to her marriage, but a woman of noble character can bring glory to God and blessings to all those around her. By understanding the importance of noble character and how it can be cultivated, individuals can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships with their spouses and families.
05/08/2026
A biblical perspective on marriage and submission is presented in Ephesians 5:22, where wives are encouraged to submit to their husbands as they would to Christ, highlighting the importance of mutual respect and love in a Christian marriage. By examining this passage and its application to everyday life, readers can gain a deeper understanding of God's plan for marriage and family relationships.
05/07/2026
A wife's support and respect can be the difference between a man's success and failure in marriage, according to Ephesians 5:33, which highlights the importance of mutual respect in a relationship. By understanding how their words and actions impact their partner's confidence, wives can take steps to build their husband's self-esteem and create a stronger, more resilient marriage.
05/06/2026
A devoted wife's selfless love and sacrifice are put to the test when her husband is threatened by gang members, highlighting the importance of a supportive partner in times of need. This heartwarming story showcases the biblical concept of a "helper" as a symbol of God's love for each individual, encouraging husbands to recognize and appreciate their wives' contributions.
05/05/2026
A man's curiosity about his wife's secret ingredient in her cooking is finally satisfied when he discovers a cryptic note that reveals the true meaning behind her culinary magic. The story takes a surprising turn as Ben learns to appreciate the love and care that Martha puts into every dish, transforming their marriage and understanding of each other.
05/04/2026
A husband's spiritual leadership is crucial in promoting his family's spiritual health, and one man's dedication to this role has been a source of inspiration for his wife and children. By establishing routines for family devotionals, prayer time, and Bible study, husbands can set a positive example and nurture their family's faith, leading to a stronger relationship with God and each other.
05/03/2026
A renowned football coach's life-changing decision was sparked by a biblical message about the importance of a husband's role in his wife's emotional well-being. By examining the countenance of his wife, Bill McCartney discovered the true cost of his success and made a profound shift that transformed his personal and professional life.
05/02/2026
The "renegade male" - a husband who abdicates his parental responsibilities and leaves his wife to care for their children alone - is a major contributor to adolescent rebellion, sex-role identity issues, and family cohesion problems. By acknowledging this problem and taking steps to fulfill his God-given role as a father, men can shape the lives of their children in a positive way and create a lasting impact on their families.
05/01/2026
A single man's life is often marked by risk and instability, but when he finds love and marries, he transforms into a pillar of social order, with a stronger sense of purpose and fulfillment. By understanding the benefits of marriage and cultivating a loving relationship, couples can experience a longer and happier life together.
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The Bible's teachings on headship in marriage have sparked intense debate among women, with some viewing it as a patriarchal doctrine that undermines their autonomy and agency. A closer examination of Scripture reveals that the "headship" principle is not about dominance, but rather about serving and loving one another, with men taking responsibility for making decisions while also being sensitive to their wives' perspectives.
04/29/2026
As husbands are called to lead their wives with a selfless, loving spirit, mirroring Christ's devotion to the church, a profound partnership is formed that brings unparalleled blessings and challenges. By embracing this God-ordained role, couples can experience a deeper level of love, commitment, and fulfillment in their relationships.
04/28/2026
A father's role as head of the household is put to the test when his preteen son questions his authority, leading him to confront the reality that he may not be fulfilling his responsibilities as a leader and caregiver. As he reflects on his own upbringing and the biblical concept of being "head of the house," he must reevaluate what it means to truly lead his family and prioritize their needs over his own desires.
04/27/2026
Effective communication is key to a healthy marriage, but many couples struggle to connect. By using a simple yet powerful analogy, parents and wives can teach their husbands how to engage in meaningful conversations that go beyond surface-level discussions.
04/26/2026
Marriage counselors often emphasize the importance of honesty in relationships, but a nuanced approach is necessary to avoid hurting one's partner. By balancing candor with grace, couples can maintain a healthy dynamic that honors God's will while preserving the spark of romance and intimacy.
04/25/2026
A powerful communication technique used by Jesus and effective in marriage is the word picture, where a vivid story or image conveys emotions and needs, as seen in the example of Jim and Susan's conversation that led to positive changes in their relationship. By using word pictures, individuals can convey their feelings and desires more effectively than words alone, leading to deeper intimacy and connection with their spouse.
04/24/2026
Effective communication is key to a healthy marriage, and one crucial aspect is the ability to listen well. By adopting a "quick listening" technique, couples can increase their chances of understanding each other and staying best friends, as recommended by authors Chuck and Barb Snyder in their book "Incompatibility: Still Grounds for a Great Marriage".
04/23/2026
Effective communication is key to a healthy relationship, but many couples struggle with tuning in to each other's needs and signals. By learning to listen more carefully, individuals can improve their relationships and deepen their connection with God.
04/22/2026
A significant disparity in emotional expression exists between husbands and wives, with women often possessing greater linguistic ability and a desire for deeper intimacy, leading to communication challenges that require compromise and acceptance. By acknowledging and addressing these differences, couples can work towards improving their relationship and fostering a more harmonious union.
04/21/2026
Erma Bombeck challenges the notion that men speak only six words a day in their homes, revealing instead a complex pattern of communication that can be both loving and frustrating. By sharing her own experiences and insights into the art of marriage, Bombeck offers practical tips for improving communication skills and avoiding the pitfalls that can lead to divorce.
04/20/2026
A renowned Christian author reflects on the timeless wisdom of her father-in-law James Dobson Sr., who believed in the inviolability of marriage vows and the importance of enduring love for one another. Drawing from his own lifelong commitment to Myrtle, Shirley shares practical insights on how couples can cultivate a stable and rewarding relationship that will last a lifetime.
04/19/2026
A couple's wedding vows are more than just words; they're a promise to stand by one another through life's joys and challenges, and keeping these commitments can have profound spiritual benefits. By honoring their "yes" and "no" in marriage, couples can experience the power of God's own promises, which demonstrate unwavering faithfulness and devotion.
04/18/2026
Minor frustrations can be just as damaging to a marriage as major tragedies, and learning to accept each other's flaws is key to lifelong love; by working through everyday irritants together, couples can cultivate a powerful secret to enduring commitment. By acknowledging and releasing their own pride and imperfections, individuals can grow in a stronger, more forgiving love that heals even the smallest of hurts.
04/17/2026
A devoted husband's unwavering commitment to caring for his quadriplegic wife of over 40 years is a powerful testament to the importance of providing for one's loved ones, as revealed in 1 Timothy 5:8; this inspiring story challenges readers to consider how they will respond when faced with hardship. By examining their own relationships and priorities, individuals can discover the strength and endurance that comes from showing love and care for those entrusted to their care.
04/16/2026
Marriages built on shaky foundations, like ancient Roman bridges, may appear secure but can crumble under pressure. By installing a strong spiritual foundation and cultivating habits and attitudes that withstand stress, couples can build a relationship that endures even the toughest challenges.
04/15/2026
Marriage is not a romantic fairy tale, but a lifelong commitment that requires determination and firmness to overcome life's challenges. By examining the biblical foundation of marriage and real-life relationships, we can uncover the essential elements necessary for a strong and lasting union.
04/14/2026
A devoted husband's love and commitment to his wife, suffering from Alzheimer's disease, are put to the ultimate test as he struggles to care for her through the darkest days of her illness. In a heart-wrenching yet ultimately uplifting tale, one man finds a way to bring hope and comfort to his wife, even in the face of unimaginable loss.
04/13/2026
A renowned Christian leader shares a personal story of unwavering prayer and perseverance, drawing on biblical teachings from Luke 18 to offer hope and encouragement to those struggling with unanswered prayers. By embracing persistent prayer as a cornerstone of faith, individuals can experience God's blessings and strengthen their relationships, just as the author has in her own life.
04/12/2026
Understanding God's Will in Prayer is Crucial to True Spiritual Growth, as manipulating Him through prayer can lead to a misunderstanding of His majesty and a lack of personal spiritual development. By shifting focus from our own desires to God's eternal wisdom and love, we can deepen our relationship with Him and experience the true power of prayer.
04/11/2026
As the Bible reminds us, "For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them," couples can strengthen their union and deepen their spiritual connection through joint prayer. By rediscovering the power of praying together, husbands and wives can build a holy bond, overcome obstacles, and experience a more stable and fulfilling relationship.
04/10/2026
A couple's desperate prayer for their daughter's safety is answered in a miraculous way, highlighting the transformative power of prayer when offered with faith and humility. By sharing this personal experience, Shirley Dobson invites readers to reflect on the impact of prayer in their own lives and relationships.
04/09/2026
As Christians, cultivating a vibrant relationship with God requires intentional time in prayer, allowing us to hear His voice and guidance amidst life's busyness. By prioritizing daily conversation with Jesus, we can deepen our understanding of Him and experience a more meaningful connection with others.
04/08/2026
Our heavenly Father yearns for a personal relationship with each of us, offering direct communication through prayer despite His busy schedule, and He always makes time to listen and care. By exploring common barriers to prayer and ways to cultivate a more vibrant prayer life, we can deepen our connection with the Creator and experience His love and guidance in our lives.
04/07/2026
A missionary's life was forever changed when he encountered a young man who had been part of a plot to kill him in the African jungle, but was thwarted by an unexpected group of armed guards that appeared out of nowhere. The miraculous intervention led to a profound impact on the missionary's congregation, highlighting the power and privilege of prayer in the lives of those who pray for others.
04/06/2026
A willing sacrifice made by one spouse can be the key to a strong and healthy marriage, as demonstrated by the author's own experience with her husband Jim, who put his doctoral studies on hold to prioritize their relationship. By prioritizing love and commitment over personal ambition, couples can build a foundation of trust, respect, and devotion that endures even in the face of adversity.
04/05/2026
A biblical approach to marriage is presented, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing God above personal desires, as Jesus teaches that following Him requires self-denial and putting others first. By adopting this "I'm Third" philosophy, couples can cultivate a stronger, more loving relationship in this life and receive eternal rewards in the next.
04/04/2026
A husband's career is often his greatest source of self-esteem, but neglecting to show appreciation for his efforts can lead to resentment; understanding and prioritizing your partner's needs can strengthen your marriage. By recognizing the importance of tranquility in the home and making a conscious effort to support and appreciate your husband, you can create a more harmonious and fulfilling relationship.
04/03/2026
A husband's willingness to serve his wife by taking on household chores, watching the kids, or simply being present can be a powerful way to build intimacy and strengthen their relationship, as exemplified by Jesus' act of washing His disciples' feet. By understanding and meeting their wife's emotional needs, husbands can create a more romantic and fulfilling partnership that brings them closer together.
04/02/2026
The "I Deserve It" mindset can be a toxic force in marriages, leading to resentment and selfishness as individuals focus on their own needs rather than serving others. By recognizing the dangers of this attitude and embracing a spirit of sacrificial love, couples can shift from entitlement to service, transforming their relationships in profound ways.
04/01/2026
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On June 7, 1958, a routine jet precision team maneuver turned into a catastrophic accident when Captain John Ferrier's plane rolled out of control and crashed into a small Ohio town, killing him instantly. The incident, which shocked thousands who witnessed the "flower burst" maneuver, was a tragic reminder of the risks faced by military pilots and the importance of humility and selflessness in the face of sacrifice.
03/30/2026
A husband's final act of devotion to his wife, a simple "I love you" spoken on her 50th birthday, has become a powerful symbol of the enduring power of true love and cherished memories in marriage. By building bridges of loving moments and promises, couples can create a foundation for genuine love that endures a lifetime.
03/29/2026
Embracing true love requires confronting the truth about one's standing before God, as our sinful nature can prevent us from living His way and ultimately lead to death; however, through faith in Jesus Christ, we can receive forgiveness and eternal life. By choosing to repent of sin and accept salvation, individuals can experience real life and begin their journey towards a loving relationship with God.
03/28/2026
A spiritual connection with Jesus Christ is essential for experiencing genuine love in marriage, offering a timeless and universal approach to building a fulfilling relationship. By establishing a personal relationship with Him, couples can tap into Judeo-Christian values that have guided men and women throughout history, leading to a deeper understanding of what it means to find love and happiness in life.
03/27/2026
As divorce rates continue to rise and social norms shift, millions of couples are left wondering if their marriages can truly last. A new perspective offers hope: by investing in their relationship and seeking divine guidance, couples can overcome the odds and discover a fulfilling and meaningful marriage that brings joy and fulfillment to life.
03/26/2026
A desperate husband's determination to win back his estranged wife is put to the test when he discovers she has been living across the country, and ultimately leads him to a profound realization about the true meaning of love. By examining this remarkable story, readers can gain insight into the power of actions over words in demonstrating love and commitment to one another.
03/25/2026
True love is often misunderstood as a physical and emotional connection that occurs instantly, but it's actually a deep appreciation and admiration for another person that develops over time. By understanding the difference between infatuation and genuine love, individuals can cultivate a lifelong emotional attachment that brings fulfillment and happiness to their relationships.
03/24/2026
A loving couple's playful game of leaving the word "shmily" in unexpected places became a lifelong expression of their devotion and passionate affection, a testament to the enduring power of true love. Through their simple yet meaningful gestures, they demonstrated that genuine intimacy and commitment can be cultivated and nurtured over time, offering hope for couples seeking to build a deep and lasting connection.
03/23/2026
A renowned Christian singer-songwriter reflects on her 40-year marriage, sharing a poignant letter from her husband that rekindled their love and commitment to one another, offering a heartwarming glimpse into the enduring power of faith and devotion. In this intimate and inspiring account, Shirley M. Dobson reveals how her relationship with Jim has been strengthened by life's challenges, including a near-fatal health scare, and finds solace in the promise of eternal love.
03/22/2026
As a loved one's life draws to a close, a simple yet profound moment can be the most meaningful - a final conversation where love and gratitude are shared. In this heartfelt reflection, the author shares a personal experience that highlights the importance of cherishing every moment with those closest to us, and preparing for the day when our own "final call" comes.
03/21/2026
As you celebrate life's milestones, don't forget to cherish the everyday moments that make marriage special - from morning kisses to quiet moments together in prayer. Discover how savoring these ordinary days can deepen your love and connection with your partner, and bring joy to all those around you.
03/20/2026
The author reflects on cherished Christmas memories, from a father's selfless acts of kindness to a heartwarming reunion with family, highlighting the importance of seizing and savoring special moments with loved ones. As the holiday season approaches, readers are invited to share their own treasured memories and consider how to infuse faith into their family celebrations.
03/19/2026
Overcommitment is a common pitfall in modern marriages that can lead to burnout, strained communication, and a neglected relationship with God. By sharing their personal experience of downsizing their lifestyle to prioritize rest, renewal, and quality time together, this article offers practical advice on recognizing the signs of overcommitment and making intentional choices to reclaim a healthier balance.
03/18/2026
A former NBA star's sudden death at 51 prompts a reflection on the importance of living each day as if it might be one's last, and how retaining an eternal perspective can guide our choices and priorities. By adopting this mindset, we can reorder our daily lives to align with eternal values, leading to a more purposeful and wise existence.
03/17/2026
A magical winter night transformed a frozen meadow into a lake of glass, allowing children to sled at incredible speeds, creating an unforgettable experience for their parents. This heartwarming story teaches the importance of embracing life's precious moments and not putting off joy when it comes, as the author reflects on a childhood memory that has stayed with her forever.
03/16/2026
A young mother's son accidentally takes the stage at a Paderewski concert and begins playing "Chopsticks" on the grand piano, prompting the famous pianist to join in with an impromptu countermelody. This heartwarming story reminds us that even our smallest efforts can become something beautiful when guided by God's strength and love.
03/15/2026
A faithful marriage is the best environment for spiritual growth, as it allows couples to experience a deepening of their relationship with God and each other, leading to lasting love, peace, and joy. By prioritizing spiritual intimacy and growth together, couples can fill the void in their lives that only Christ can provide, and discover a deeper connection with one another.
03/14/2026
Embracing change can be a powerful catalyst for growth and success, but rigidity and habit can hold us back from reaching our full potential. By recognizing outdated routines and habits that no longer serve us, we can break free from stagnation and tap into the transformative power of self-discipline and love.
03/13/2026
A couple's unlikely hobby becomes a catalyst for their relationship, transforming from distance to closeness through shared passion and discovery, offering a powerful reminder that obstacles can be opportunities for growth and connection. By embracing new experiences together, couples can strengthen their bond and reignite the spark that once brought them together.
03/12/2026
Despite facing numerous setbacks, including business failures and personal tragedies, Abraham Lincoln persevered and went on to become one of the most revered presidents in U.S. history, leading the nation through its darkest hour. This inspiring story serves as a powerful reminder that failure is not only inevitable but also an opportunity for growth and learning, encouraging readers to be willing to take risks and learn from their mistakes.
03/11/2026
Taking bold risks can lead to a sense of fulfillment and confidence, just like Evel Knievel's death-defying stunts, but it requires facing fears and stepping outside one's comfort zone. By embracing positive risks in marriage and for the sake of Jesus Christ, individuals can experience personal growth and make a lasting impact on others.
03/10/2026
As Pam Gross recounts her exhilarating rollerblading experience on the boardwalk in Seaside, Oregon, she reflects on the joy of rediscovering freedom and confidence that comes with trying something new. This personal anecdote serves as a catalyst for exploring how embracing new experiences can help couples overcome the monotony of daily life and reignite their passion for each other.
03/09/2026
A woman's life was transformed when she discovered a series of love letters her late husband had written to her while recovering from an illness, which she found hidden in the pages of her Bible. By reading Scripture and waiting for God's Word to meet her needs, individuals can tap into a source of hope and comfort that can bring joy and delight to their daily lives.
03/08/2026
A father's poignant reflection on the afterlife, shared just before his passing, offers a powerful reminder that true meaning and purpose can only be found in eternity. This personal story invites readers to reflect on their own hopes for the future and consider the transformative power of faith in everyday life.
03/07/2026
As a sudden storm threatens to upend your life, find comfort in knowing that Jesus Christ serves as an unshakeable anchor for your soul, providing security and stability in the midst of turmoil. By placing your hopes and dreams firmly in God's hands, you can rest assured that your souls are safe and secure, no matter what the future holds.
03/06/2026
Hope is a powerful force that can drive positive change, but naive hope based on unrealistic expectations can be damaging; by accepting the unresolvable aspects of our relationships, we can cultivate realistic hope for an honest and satisfying marriage. By understanding what can be changed, explained, taught, revised, resolved, and negotiated, and what must be accepted, couples can develop a hopeful perspective that brings healing to their marriages.
03/05/2026
As the pressures of work, family, and church duties mount, many marriages are on the brink of collapse, with fatigue, irritability, and anger threatening to consume them. By prioritizing tranquility at home, couples can break free from the cycle of stress and create a sanctuary of peace and renewal that fosters hope, love, and spiritual growth.
03/04/2026
The World's Most Opposite Couple shares their remarkable story of nearly 40 years of marriage, navigating conflicts and differences in a relationship that has been both tested and strengthened by their unique bond. By embracing obedience to God and celebrating the distinct qualities that make each other special, Chuck and Barb Snyder offer hope and inspiration for readers to reevaluate their own relationships and find strength in their differences.
03/03/2026
A young boy in a Nazi concentration camp forms an unlikely bond with a mysterious girl who brings him apples, offering him hope and sustenance during his darkest days. Years later, he meets her again as she recounts their shared experience, rekindling their love and inspiring a powerful exploration of the transformative power of hope.
03/02/2026
A chance encounter on a plane led to an unforgettable moment of laughter and bonding between two people who would go on to spend their lives together, sharing a sense of humor that has endured for decades. This heartwarming story reveals the power of playfulness in marriage and offers practical advice on how to cultivate joy and connection with your partner.
03/01/2026
As Christians navigate the challenges of marriage, a lighthearted spirit can be a powerful catalyst for joy and hope, reminding us that it's not just our circumstances but Whom we're looking to that truly matters; by keeping Jesus Christ at the center, couples can cultivate laughter and positivity in their relationships. By embracing God's sense of humor and trusting Him with life's worries, couples can bring a renewed sense of joy and lightheartedness into their homes.
February 202602/28/2026
Laughter is a vital part of family life, but it's essential to use humor wisely to avoid hurting others' feelings or masking deeper issues like low self-esteem. This devotional explores the importance of using humor that uplifts and edifies, rather than tearing down, and offers practical guidance on how to navigate this delicate balance in our relationships.
02/27/2026
A humorous collection of church bulletins reveals the lighter side of faith, featuring jokes like "Ushers will eat latecomers" and "The third verse of 'Blessed Assurance' will be sung without musical accomplishment." This lighthearted look at humor in worship offers a refreshing respite from the usual seriousness of church life.
02/26/2026
Laughter is the glue that holds families together, and sharing funny stories from childhood can create lifelong bonds between generations. By embracing our sense of humor and preserving these lighthearted moments, we can strengthen family ties and pass down a treasured heritage to future generations.
02/25/2026
A shift away from laughter and joy has occurred among adults, with many experiencing a significant decrease in daily laughter compared to children, while life's minor inconveniences can often be a source of frustration; however, adopting a humorous perspective can greatly improve one's outlook on adversity. By recognizing the importance of humor and appreciation for life's blessings, individuals can better navigate difficult situations and cultivate more positive relationships with themselves and others.
02/24/2026
A husband's prank on his wife leaves her stranded at a rest stop with no sign of him, prompting her to call the police and embark on a desperate search for him. In a surprising twist, Bob reveals that he had intentionally abandoned Audrey, leading to a humorous and heartwarming exploration of marriage, faith, and the power of laughter in the face of adversity.
02/23/2026
God's design for marriage is rooted in His desire for our benefit, yet divorce remains a contentious issue, with the Lord explicitly stating His disapproval of it; this article explores the biblical perspective on marriage and divorce, offering hope and encouragement to those navigating troubled relationships. By examining Scripture and understanding God's principles, couples can find stability and fulfillment in their marriages, even in the midst of challenges and temptations.
02/22/2026
As you navigate the complexities of a second marriage, can God's forgiveness and guidance help you overcome the challenges of raising children from two sets of parents and rebuilding a lifelong commitment? By seeking His principles for marriage and learning from past mistakes, you can forge a strong and lasting union with your partner.
02/21/2026
The widespread adoption of "no-fault" divorce laws in the US has led to a staggering 279% increase in divorces since their introduction, eroding the sacredness of marriage in the eyes of the law. As society's understanding of marriage and relationships continues to shift, experts warn that the consequences of this trend may be irreparable, leaving families torn apart with little hope of repair.
02/20/2026
Research suggests that marital conflict can have devastating effects on one's physical and emotional health, increasing the risk of cancer, premature death, and other serious health issues. A closer examination of the spiritual implications of divorce reveals a profound impact on one's overall well-being, highlighting the need for healthier approaches to conflict resolution.
02/19/2026
And a husband must not divorce his wife (1 Cor. 7:11). The distress young children experience after a divorce remains with them throughout their lives.
02/18/2026
02/17/2026
When faced with the breakup of her parents’ marriage, a hurting teenager used the following word picture in this letter to her father.
02/16/2026
A mother's difficult decision to let go of her teenage daughter's need for rescue, forcing her to face embarrassment and learn responsibility, ultimately leads to a transformative experience that strengthens their bond and teaches valuable life lessons. By surrendering control and trusting in God's plan, the author discovers the value of letting children grow and mature on their own terms.
02/15/2026
As a parent, you are called to be the spiritual leader of your child's life, with eternal consequences hanging in the balance - but what does it mean to truly fulfill this role? Discover practical guidance and encouragement to help you stay on course and raise your children to know and love Jesus.
02/14/2026
Traditional parenting advice has been passed down through generations, emphasizing basic yet effective strategies such as setting clear boundaries, showing affection, and teaching values like respect and faith. By following these timeless principles, parents can raise competent and well-adjusted children, fostering a strong family bond that brings joy and fulfillment to the entire household.
02/13/2026
A family's home environment can have a profound impact on its members, particularly children, shaping their emotional well-being and spiritual development. By examining how our upbringing influences the mood in our households today, we can take steps to create a positive and loving atmosphere that honors God and sets our children up for a happy and Christ-honoring childhood.
02/12/2026
As parents struggle to support their children who are struggling to "rise" in life, a renowned expert shares heartwarming insights from years of experience working with hundreds of families, revealing that the child who seems to be "flying low" may ultimately reach incredible heights. With practical advice and spiritual guidance, this article offers hope and encouragement for parents seeking to nurture their children's unique gifts and talents.
02/11/2026
A father's love and devotion were put to the ultimate test when his three-year-old son fell into six-feet-deep water, but it was Billy's unwavering trust in his dad that ultimately saved him. This heartwarming story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of teaching our children to trust their heavenly Father, just as we teach them to trust us.
02/10/2026
As a childless couple, Philip and his wife thought they knew it all about raising kids - until they became parents themselves, discovering that their previous smugness was replaced with humility and ignorance. In this humorous and relatable essay, Gulley shares the unexpected twists and surprises of parenthood, revealing that embracing uncertainty is key to navigating the challenges of child-rearing.
02/09/2026
A young unmarried mother struggles to support her toddler, highlighting the desperate need for kindness and assistance from others, while a personal experience serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of compassion in everyday life. By showing empathy and providing help, individuals can make a significant difference in the lives of single mothers and their children, fostering a sense of community and mutual blessing.
02/08/2026
When life's burdens become unbearable, many struggle with the "if onlys" that plague their minds, but a deeper understanding of God's purpose can bring hope and comfort to those who surrender to His plan. By releasing these unfulfilled desires to God, believers can discover His perfect, loving plan for their lives, even in the midst of hardship and uncertainty.
02/07/2026
A remarkable encounter between a father and his profoundly disabled son sparks a profound realization about the power of Christ-like love in breaking down social barriers and challenging cultural norms. By embracing the inherent value and potential in every individual, we can transform our relationships with others and reflect God's perfect love to those around us.
02/06/2026
As the Good Shepherd watches over humanity day and night, He calls believers to follow His example by seeking out and caring for "lost sheep" in their daily lives, offering divine appointments to lead others into God's flock. By embracing this role, Christians can demonstrate Jesus' great love and compassion to those around them, just as He did during His earthly ministry.
02/05/2026
We all struggle with "split vision" - treating those we love with kindness and patience while being harsh with them. By recognizing this hypocrisy, we can learn to show our family members the same compassion and understanding we would offer to strangers, leading to stronger, more loving relationships.
02/04/2026
When a partner steps in to help, do we choose to see their good intentions or take offense? By choosing to believe the best about our spouse's motives, we can build intimacy and avoid unnecessary conflict, as one couple learned when their wife took over building a new gas barbecue.
02/03/2026
A chance encounter between a young mother and a homeless man in a restaurant on Christmas Day leads to an unexpected moment of connection and kindness that challenges the mother's perceptions of the world around her. This heartwarming story highlights the transformative power of empathy and compassion, encouraging readers to re-examine their assumptions about others and see the world through fresh eyes.
02/02/2026
A young boy's spontaneous gift of a beautifully crafted desk set to his mother on her birthday is a powerful reminder of the importance of unrestrained generosity in our marriages and relationships. By embracing childlike giving with no ulterior motive, we can experience the love of God in our homes and deepen our connection with others.
02/01/2026
A professional baseball player's career was derailed when he prioritized his family over his dreams, leading to a life-changing decision that would ultimately bring him greater fulfillment. By surrendering his ambitions for the sake of others, Tim Burke discovered a more profound purpose in life, one that has yielded eternal dividends and transformed his relationship with God.
January 202601/31/2026
A simple act of kindness can have a profound impact on someone's life, as illustrated by the author's experience helping an elderly woman pay for groceries without her knowledge. By incorporating small acts of kindness into our daily lives, we can make a significant difference in the world and be a powerful witness for Christ.
01/30/2026
A groundbreaking study reveals that babies as young as eight months old can recognize and remember words, highlighting the importance of modeling a spirit of generosity in our daily interactions with them. By being mindful of what we say and do around our children, we can inadvertently shape their values and behavior, leading to blessings for everyone involved.
01/29/2026
Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share (1 Tim. 6:18). We are most like Christ when we show compassion and generosity to others.
01/28/2026
A renowned Christian psychologist's chance encounter with the author at 40 years old had a profound impact on his life, illustrating the transformative power of generosity in sharing time and wisdom. By reflecting on this experience, readers can discover their own opportunities to make a meaningful difference in others' lives through the simple act of offering their expertise or insights.
01/27/2026
A dirt-poor preacher is given a brand new car by his wealthy brother as a gift, but what happens next reveals a remarkable act of kindness and generosity from the young boy who receives it. This heartwarming story highlights the power of a generous spirit and its potential to shape the lives of those around us.
01/26/2026
A young girl's tumultuous childhood and her journey towards healing and self-worth are revealed in a heart-wrenching story of love, redemption, and the transformative power of faith. Through her own experiences, author Shirley M. Dobson shares a poignant message of hope and encouragement for those who have faced similar struggles, offering guidance on how to provide support and understanding to loved ones.
01/25/2026
The Bible teaches that true self-worth comes from knowing God's personal love and value for each individual, a message of hope and encouragement for those who are broken and discouraged. By recognizing our worth as children of God, we can shift our focus away from earthly validation and build our lives on the eternal decree of our loving Lord.
01/24/2026
A man's sense of worth is deeply tied to his career success, but when this fails, it can lead to devastating consequences for both him and those around him. By understanding their differences and showing genuine respect and support, wives can help their husbands find a healthier balance between work and life, and cultivate a more fulfilling relationship.
01/23/2026
As a husband, you have the power to transform your wife's life by being present with her in body and spirit, fostering a deeper sense of self-worth and confidence. By following simple yet profound principles from the Bible, such as honoring one another above yourselves, you can help your wife feel seen, heard, and valued, leading to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
01/22/2026
A Royal Air Force pilot's disfiguring burn led him to discover the transformative power of his wife's unwavering acceptance, revealing a profound truth about the nature of true love and self-worth. By embracing this mutual admiration society, couples can build each other up and reflect back love and affirmation, fostering a deeper connection that transcends physical appearance.
01/21/2026
Feeling like a burdened traveler carrying the weight of past failures and inadequacies can be overwhelming, but what if you could break free from these self-imposed chains by shifting your focus to God's values rather than human standards? By recognizing that our worth is not defined by fleeting societal norms, we can discover true contentment and self-acceptance as beloved creations of a loving God.
01/20/2026
A young woman's visit to a South Pacific island reveals the story of Johnny Lingo, a man who bought eight cows for his wife Sarita, defying island customs and expectations, and teaching her that she is worth more than any other woman. Through their journey, McGerr explores how our self-concept is shaped by others' perceptions and interactions, offering a powerful message on the importance of building each other's self-esteem.
01/19/2026
As a family navigates the challenges of everyday life, they must confront their own flaws and learn to forgive one another in order to maintain harmony. By embracing forgiveness as a fundamental Christian principle, individuals can heal wounded relationships and live together in love and unity.
01/18/2026
Even though you know you're guilty, you can't get the words out of your mouth.
01/17/2026
As a parent, admitting your mistakes can be daunting, but modeling healthy forgiveness for your child is crucial for their emotional well-being and relationship with you. By apologizing and seeking forgiveness from your kids, you demonstrate accountability, show them that relationships are about growth, and help prevent lingering bitterness and hurt.
01/16/2026
In the aftermath of a devastating school shooting, a community came together to demonstrate remarkable forgiveness, showing that choosing to let go of anger and resentment can be a powerful act of love and healing. By understanding the difference between forgiving and excusing, individuals can learn to release hurt and move forward with their lives, even when it's difficult.
01/15/2026
Failing to forgive can lead to devastating consequences for ourselves, including emotional pain, health problems, and even spiritual torment, as Jesus warns in the parable of the unmerciful servant. By understanding the true cost of bitterness and learning how to forgive, couples can follow God's way for marriage and build a stronger, more loving relationship with each other.
01/14/2026
A remarkable story of forgiveness and healing is shared in this article, where a woman finds the strength to forgive her husband's infidelity and the young widow who bore his child, leading to a loving marriage and a child she never thought she'd have. By praying for God's help, she discovers the transformative power of forgiveness, which can bring peace, healing, and a stronger marriage.
01/13/2026
A former Nazi guard, who had brutally tortured and starved prisoners at Ravensbruck concentration camp, asked for forgiveness from Corrie ten Boom, a Dutch woman who had survived the camp. In a powerful act of defiance against her own anger and bitterness, Corrie extended forgiveness to the guard, an experience that profoundly impacted her faith and left a lasting legacy.
01/12/2026
Marriage is not a dreamlike state of wedded bliss where conflict doesn't exist, but rather a journey with its own set of challenges and surprises. By sharing a committed love and learning to navigate life's unexpected twists and turns together, couples can overcome even the most trying moments and build a strong, lasting relationship.
01/11/2026
As Jesus demonstrated through his interactions with the Pharisees and Peter, love and compassion can be paired with firmness and conviction, offering a powerful model for navigating conflicts in marriage. By examining our own motives and seeking to emulate Christ's example, couples can cultivate a deeper understanding of each other and strengthen their relationship.
01/10/2026
Conflict resolution in marriage can be just as damaging as the fight itself, leaving resentment and hurt feelings to erode the relationship over time. By asking four crucial questions after an argument and seeking forgiveness, couples can put an end to conflict before it's too late, allowing for healing, forgiveness, and a deeper understanding of each other.
01/09/2026
Conflict can be a catalyst for growth in marriage by maintaining lines of respect, but it's essential to recognize when those boundaries have been crossed. By understanding and upholding the "line of respect" between spouses, couples can strengthen their relationship and foster a deeper sense of love and appreciation.
01/08/2026
Learning to fight fair in marriage is a crucial skill that can help couples navigate disagreements without causing lasting wounds or insults. By understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict, couples can learn to address the root causes of their disputes while protecting each other's dignity and fostering a stronger relationship.
01/06/2026
A difficult day can quickly escalate into a heated argument between spouses due to differing assumptions, fatigue, or stress, as illustrated by the author's own experience with their partner Shirley, leading to a three-day freeze in their relationship; understanding and communication are key to avoiding such conflicts. By being aware of each other's mental and physical state and communicating expectations ahead of time, couples can navigate challenging situations together in unity and love.
01/05/2026
A late night argument between a husband and wife, sparked by a minor issue, escalates into a heated confrontation that leaves both feeling drained and disappointed. In this personal account, Gigi Graham Tchividjian shares a heart-wrenching story of how she learned to prioritize her relationship with God and her husband, leading to a profound shift in their marriage.
01/04/2026
Behind every successful person is often a partner who provides crucial support and encouragement, as illustrated by the stories of Nathaniel Hawthorne's wife Sophia and author Shirley M. Dobson, who credits her husband with helping her achieve spiritual growth and success. By recognizing the vital role that a supportive spouse can play in our lives, we can learn valuable lessons on how to foster a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.
01/03/2026
A young athlete's life is transformed when an umpire tells him to "use your dad's arms" while swinging the bat, leading to remarkable improvement in his game, and this biblical principle can be applied to encouraging others in marriage and ministry. By tapping into God's strength and resources, individuals can provide invaluable encouragement to those around them, just as Barnabas did for the apostle Paul during their missionary journeys.
01/02/2026
A powerful executive's mistake cost his company millions, but instead of punishment, he was met with kindness and encouragement from the CEO, who saw an opportunity to boost morale and motivation. This heartwarming story highlights the transformative power of words and encourages readers to reflect on how they can use their own words to uplift others during difficult times.
01/01/2026
Criticism can be a potent poison, capable of deeply wounding even the strongest individuals, as evidenced by personal accounts from Lewis Yablonsky and psychologist Abraham Maslow. By shifting our focus to positive traits in our partners and practicing affirming communication, we can create a more loving and supportive marriage.
December 202512/31/2025
A remarkable story of a family dog's recovery highlights the transformative power of love and encouragement, illustrating that even in human beings, kindness can be the catalyst for healing and renewal. By choosing to offer support and care to others, we have the ability to bring life and transformation into their lives, just as Penny's owner did for him.
12/30/2025
As the Bible teaches, encouragement is not just a kind word, but a powerful act of standing alongside someone in their struggles and sharing their burdens, fostering courage, hope, and happiness in our relationships. By embracing this ministry of parakletos, we can become exceptional sources of comfort and strength for those around us, transforming our marriages and communities into havens of love and support.
12/29/2025
Larry, an ordinary man, undergoes a mysterious transformation, showering his wife Jo Ann with praise and appreciation for her efforts in various aspects of their life, leaving her bewildered and grateful. This heartwarming story explores the incredible power of encouragement and its ability to transform relationships and bring joy to those who receive it.
12/28/2025
A well-known game show host's experience with temptation serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of greed, which can lead individuals to prioritize material wealth over spiritual values. By recognizing the threat posed by greed and making a conscious choice to keep God as one's first love, people can avoid falling into the trap of materialism and instead cultivate a healthier relationship with money.
12/27/2025
A renowned author reflects on the fleeting nature of earthly possessions, warning that materialism can lead to a legacy of "empty castles" that ultimately prove hollow. In a poignant exploration of what truly matters in life, they invite readers to consider their own priorities and seek a more meaningful existence.
12/26/2025
A renowned evangelist's father shares a personal anecdote about the generosity of God, illustrating that no matter how much one gives, they can never outgive Him, leading to numerous unexpected blessings in their lives. This heartwarming story invites readers to reflect on their own trust in God and consider sharing their abundance with others, as He promises to pour out blessings on those who tithe in His name.
12/25/2025
Many lottery winners struggle financially after winning, highlighting the importance of responsible spending and budgeting; by adopting simple yet effective financial habits, individuals can avoid debt and create a worry-free home environment. By prioritizing frugality, tithing, and discipline, people can break free from the cycle of financial stress and align their lives with God's wisdom.
12/24/2025
A man's life is not measured by his possessions, but rather by the relationships and experiences he has along the way. A personal anecdote turns into a profound reflection on materialism, inviting readers to reevaluate their own relationship with ownership and consider how it impacts their lives and faith.
12/23/2025
The pursuit of wealth has long been a source of conflict and destruction in relationships, with biblical teachings warning that prioritizing money over God can lead to spiritual and marital ruin. By examining our relationship with money and seeking alignment with Jesus' teachings, individuals can cultivate a healthier and more enduring approach to finances that honors their faith and strengthens their marriages.
12/22/2025
A poor peanut vendor's life is turned upside down when he meets John D. Rockefeller, one of the richest men in the world, who offers him a lucrative job opportunity. The vendor's decision to decline the offer and maintain his independence serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of pride and materialism.
12/21/2025
A God of joy is one who loves us more than ourselves, sending His Son to die for us and preparing a place in eternity just for us, and this love brings about an abundance of joy that can be shared with others. By shifting our focus from individual happiness to the joy that comes from understanding God's love, we can experience joy even in the midst of struggles and live a life of selfless abundance.
12/20/2025
Retired couples and stay-at-home spouses can fall into four common traps that drain their joy, including isolation, inactivity, self-pity, and despair, but avoiding these pitfalls requires intentional effort and connection with others; by recognizing the dangers of these traps and taking proactive steps to avoid them, individuals can rediscover purpose and meaning in life.
12/19/2025
The notion of "victimhood" has become a pervasive cultural phenomenon, leading to division and hopelessness among the majority, while Scripture offers a better way by encouraging gratitude and focus on those less fortunate. By recognizing the destructive nature of victimization, individuals can break free from paralyzing blame and instead cultivate resilience and joy in the face of adversity.
12/18/2025
When troubles seem insurmountable, reaching out to someone else can be a powerful antidote to despair, as sharing another's pain can often shed some of our own burdens. By helping others, Christians can discover that lifting the weight of another's load is also a means of lightening their own, fostering a profound paradox at the heart of the Christian life.
12/17/2025
Charlie Wedemeyer, a former high school teacher and football coach, has defied the odds of ALS by choosing to focus on his faith and inspiring thousands with his story of resilience and hope. Through his remarkable journey, Charlie shares valuable lessons on how to find strength in suffering and make the most of life's challenges.
12/16/2025
Living a life of happiness despite everyday challenges requires a profound dependence on Jesus Christ, who can empower individuals to choose their reaction to life's difficulties and respond with positivity and contentment. By examining one's attitude and reactions to adversity, Christians can cultivate a stronger relationship with God and grow in their ability to navigate life's ups and downs with faith and optimism.
12/15/2025
A chance encounter with a Salvation Army bell ringer sparks a moment of profound joy and connection to God for the author, who is struggling to find energy and meaning in the holiday season. This heartwarming story explores how the simple act of giving and receiving can lead to a deeper sense of joy and spiritual connection.
12/14/2025
The biblical account of Queen Esther's courageous approach to her husband King Xerxes serves as a powerful example of the transformative power of honor in marriage, demonstrating how sincere respect can lead to remarkable outcomes. By embracing this principle, couples can create a more loving and positive home environment, even when relationships may be strained or distant.
12/13/2025
As a child, your opinion of your parents is shaped by the relationship between them, with each parent influencing what you think of the other; now, it's time to flip this script and show honor to those who have raised you. By openly expressing love and admiration for your partner in front of your children, you can set a powerful example that will pay off for years to come.
12/12/2025
A husband's well-intentioned surprise gift can quickly turn into a marital disaster when his partner is having a terrible day. By understanding the importance of honoring one's mate, couples can learn to show love and appreciation in ways that are meaningful and enjoyable for their partner.
12/11/2025
Philippians 4:8 reminds us that true strength lies not in tearing down others, but in building each other up. By shifting our focus from mocking to honoring, couples can create a more positive and supportive environment, both in public and behind closed doors.
12/10/2025
Taking your partner for granted can lead to feelings of unappreciation and even infidelity, as many individuals seek recognition outside the home; by showing genuine appreciation for your spouse's talents and services, you can strengthen your marriage and foster a deeper sense of respect. By making honoring each other a reflex action, couples can avoid self-centeredness and cultivate a more fulfilling and loving relationship.
12/09/2025
The Bible emphasizes the importance of honoring one another, particularly in marriage, yet many couples neglect to express gratitude for their partners' daily sacrifices. By reevaluating what it means to honor each other, individuals can cultivate a deeper sense of appreciation and respect in their relationships.
12/08/2025
A husband planned a surprise party for his wife's graduation, but with a twist - the celebration was all about her sacrifices and dedication to their shared goal, leaving him speechless in gratitude. This heartwarming story highlights the importance of honoring one's spouse and elevating them before others, a vital aspect of a healthy and loving marriage.
12/07/2025
Building trust in marriage is crucial for its success, much like constructing a small house out of dominos, where every aspect is connected and the placement of each domino matters. Sharing intimate secrets with one's partner can be a powerful way to deepen trust and intimacy, but it requires careful consideration and vulnerability.
12/06/2025
Sharing intimate details with your partner can strengthen your bond, but beware of the fine line between openness and manipulation, as revealed in a personal anecdote about a company president's wife who felt insecure after her husband shared his office flirtations with her. By cultivating trust, commitment, and open communication, couples can transform their relationship into a deep and abiding friendship that brings joy and fulfillment to both partners.
12/05/2025
Sharing intimate details with a partner is crucial for building trust and intimacy in marriage, as unspoken thoughts and feelings can create distance and insecurity; by being open and honest about life's challenges and vulnerabilities, couples can foster a deeper connection and strengthen their bond. By prioritizing vulnerability and communication, partners can create a safe and supportive environment where they feel valued and understood.
12/04/2025
Building trust in marriage requires a record of choices and deeds that prove reliability, as actions can have a profound impact on relationships. By acknowledging the power of small actions and avoiding pride in infallibility, couples can establish a strong foundation for trust and avoid devastating consequences.
12/03/2025
To build strong foundations in your marriage, consider establishing clear guidelines for interactions with the opposite sex, fostering trust and reassurance through open communication and mutual respect. By asking permission and listening to each other's concerns, couples can create a safe and secure environment that honors God and protects their relationship from temptation.
12/02/2025
As Satan seeks to destroy marriages through infidelity, couples must be vigilant in protecting their relationships, just as the author recounts a personal experience where he narrowly avoided being swayed by temptation. By understanding God's Word on adultery and seeking wisdom and strength, couples can build a strong foundation for a "way of escape" from temptation and ensure a lifelong commitment to one another.
12/01/2025
A man's marriage is put to the test when his wife has a vivid dream about him leaving her for a high-society surgeon named Angela, forcing him to confront the uncertainty of trust in their relationship. As he navigates this challenge, he must decide whether to re-evaluate his commitment and work towards building a foundation of trust with his partner.
A new school year brings fresh opportunities—and new challenges. Between homework, activities, sports, and busy schedules, it's easy to lose sight of what matters most.
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